Mystery of life

It matters not how strait the gate,

How charged with punishments the scroll,

I am the master of my fate;

I am the captain of my soul.

                                 -William Ernest Henley

Pesky bang is always in our mind -

Why it happened?

Why me?

What is the good reason behind it as said?

But when we connect dots and see past events and other’s feedbacks

We suddenly realize that was for feedforward

Then the moment comes when we understand the reason behind those failures, those hurting moments, those situations.

Today what we are, that is the effect of those causes in past (in scientific term)

Many questions were roaming in my head randomly and was struggling to solve the mystery

You know what happened in past few years, when spent time with “me”

Surprisingly I could solve that mystery and got all the answers by connecting all the dots and magic happened

I found those horrified moments were the preparation of universe to play role in my life for all gratified moments

Always I had to make choice from hard alternatives, hard but fruitful

Like far from my place but for better life, blessed with many friends, blessed with desired career opportunities, and blessed with positive surroundings and place to blossom

Being an emotional person was struggling one point of time and was discerning why not getting the positive response in return , thinking very positive about others but understood the reality of the other side that all have their own conditioning, attitude, thought process and expectation.

Experienced all terms like Self-realization, self-actualization, self-fulfillment but most of all “self-love” heard myself.

Then changed the prospective to see the things differently and practiced empathy then really turned into new identity just the inner person transformed and turned into happy, helping, kind, fun loving, courageous and supportive person. Life is adventurous, full of surprises.

I understood that was to make me strong whether it was good or bad situation or experience.

That was my exam at every step to be ready to qualify another level.

Whether “success” or “failure”

Whether “happy” or “sad”

Whether “gain” or “loss”

Whether “abondance” or “scarcity”

Understood the clear picture of the result of my own action.

I heard and experienced the law of attraction, surely it works

But on the other side (you can say side effects), universe made some changes in current situation turned into desired situation though the process which might be adverse and difficult for time being.

Eventually blur picture turned into clear vision.

One more benefit to do this practice of connecting dots, I can look back and by changing the pattern of thought into positive psychology then can connect other dots for upcoming life.

My dear friends – moral of the story is

Always Remember that “This world will be in same shape and colour which we draw”

Important is “to be prepare for going through the process”

(which is hard off course but necessary) for getting the things in desired way.