MY WIFE TAUGHT ME A LESSON FOR LIFE!

I went on an important trip for three days, and immediately after my arrival, I called to check on my wife and daughter, because I am not used to their separation, and they are not used to my absence.

We have been married and in love for some years.But unfortunately she did not answer my calls, and this went on for all the three days. 

My phone did not leave my hand, as I was calling her without exaggeration, every quarter of an hour or half an hour, and no one answered.

I was so much worried, I thought I will go insane. I contacted my brother,friends and sisters to check on their conditions, they told me they are fine. I did not believe them, and I called my wife's mother, and she told me the same, I asked her to tell my wife to call me. But I waited for so long, and no one called. 

Three days passed like three months, and sometimes I get in the midst of wanting to explode from anger.

I wondered why she is not answering my calls, and sometimes the Devil whispers terrible things to me. I returned to my country, and as soon as my feet touched the ground, I rushed to my home. Because of the intensity of my fear I knocked the door, and rang the bell at the same time, until my wife opened the door and to my surprise, she was fine and very elegant, and she welcomed me with all her heart and soul.Behind her was my child, her eyes dancing with joy, she ran to hug me. 

I was confused, I did not know what was the reason as to why she was not answering my calls. Soon my anger replaced my surprise. I asked my wife about the reason for this childish behavior, and that I almost cut off my trip.

My wife replied calmly: 

"Did you contact your mother?" I answered her, but I did not understand why she asked me that: "I do not know maybe, but I called your mother to ask about you.

She said: "What you felt in these days which you did not hear from us, is the same feeling your mother feels when you forget to call her for so many days." 

You do not call her, unless she takes the initiative to call you. She too, gets worried of you when you do not call her for a long time. I tried so much to alert you on this issue, but you are ignoring it. I did not find a better way than this to make you understand my point my dear husband.

I bend my head downward because what she said touched my heart. She gave me my car key and whispered in my ear: "Your Jannah/paradise is waiting for you." She meant my mother.

I went to my first love, "my mother" after my wise wife taught me a lesson, I will not forget for a lifetime. I am grateful to her that she made me come back to my senses before it is too late, and then I will come to regret it. I thank Allah for this wise and brave wife, and for her mother, who raised her in the best way.

Thank you Allah, for having mercy on me and waking me up from ignorance. Dear friend your mother is your Jannah/paradise do not forget to call her, even once a day, and this is the least. Because her heart waits for you, prays for you, and thinks about you all the time. Her love for you prevents her from calling you all the time for fear of disturbing you. Please may remind your husband, friends and wife that their mothers are the treasure of their lives, and source of their blessings!

Do not distract them from their mothers.Help your husband, wife to obey their parents.

This obeying will come back to you and you will see it in your children. 

May Almighty Allah bless our mothers long life and also grant the late mothers jannah/paradise.Ameen!!

Abaasi Walugembe.

Humanitarian and charity founder/director.

https://www.ciochumanitarianinitiative.org/