My way is not a HighWay-But Just another way

From a young age, I was get curious about how people live their life. My father, a dedicated teacher, always told me the simple path: Get your education(medical /engineer),I falied in +2 science biology ,so no option left than a diploma in engineering. Get the job, Be Stable. I followed this advice, but deep down, I felt a echo for something more—something that the traditional path couldn't offer.

In my quest for better ways of living while doing the job, I observed my friends or seniors lives closely. While many of them took the conventional route—buying houses, settling into stable jobs or hearing them like in 2-3 years you should to switch the job ,neither good increment will not happen—

I noticed a pattern. They often seemed burdened by the weight of their responsibilities, taking loans for flats which make their wife happy, working jobs that drained their energies, buying the four wheeler because everybody is doing the same.

I questioned everything. "Do I want that?" I asked myself. "Why do people follow the same patterns, even when they lead to unhappiness?" This led me to a period of introspection and self-observation. I saw myself also falling into the same trap and decided to break free.

Choosing a different path,

Despite the societal pressure to conform, I stick to non-judgmental approach to life.. My father's philosophy of simple living influenced me, but I added my own twist: a life of purpose and passion.

I never purchased a house being earning good handsome salary for 10 years, You will astonish I have not taken a two wheeler for 5 years after starting my job although I am there at onsite for 2 years at Malaysia, preferring to move where opportunities and inspiration took me.

Its give me the flexibility, I learn even then all the new technologies, different services, being a volunteer for blood donation ,orphan care, I just want to experience the other side of spectrum fully not for charity.

I frequently visited to my home town to my family members, support my brother ,sister ,father, friends, family members in whichever possible way.Sometimes me and my wife travel the train without a proper seat in waiting list just to reach ill older people to support them.

I sought out creative startups, tapping into multiple sources of income rather than being tied to a single job. This lifestyle allowed me to focus on my passions and grow as a person.

its not always smooth thoe,

Despite facing societal pressures and occasional self-doubt, my commitment to my unique journey never changed. I became a keen observer of human behavior, learning from others' mistakes and successes. This mindset helped me to navigate the unpredictable terrain of life with resilience and curiosity.