My Promise to the Universe

If you are a friend or family member who KNOWS me, know this about me... I will DEFEND your right not to be a victim of violence, even if we disagree in ideology just as much as if we agree in it...

These are MY original words, transcribed for the Universe to hear...

Be warned: This post (and any others on my pages ever) will be LOCKED if any violence is noted in commentary.

Stacy Braiuca's Personal Promises to Herself and the Universe

Introduction:

My name is Stacy Braiuca. I am a social worker, a public health educator, a HUMAN, a sister, a friend, a lifelong learner, and a passionate advocate for human rights and respect. Currently, I find myself deeply engaged in social discussions that often become heated and divisive. I am creating this promise to the myself and to the Universe to solidify my commitment to fostering respect, understanding, and non-violence in all interactions, especially in the spaces I inhabit, digital or analog.

Core Values:

1. Learning:

- Learning is a lifelong journey rather than a destination. I am dedicated to improving myself daily, understanding that perfection is not the goal, but progress is.

2. Respect:

- Every individual deserves respect regardless of their beliefs or background. For me, this means listening actively, engaging thoughtfully, and standing against disrespect and violence in any form.

3. Non-Violence:

- I firmly believe that violence, whether physical, verbal, or emotional, is never an acceptable response. My stance is to approach conflicts with peace and seek resolutions that honor all parties involved.

4. Integrity:

- Living with integrity means being true to my values and beliefs, even when it is difficult. It involves standing up for what I believe in and for the rights of others, irrespective of ideological differences.

5. Human Rights:

- The rights and dignity of every human being are non-negotiable. I commit to advocating for these rights and opposing any form of hatred or discrimination.

Beliefs:

- Diversity of Thought:

- I believe that every human has a unique representation of the world, shaped by their experiences and perspectives. This diversity is a strength, and understanding it is crucial to human connection.

- Freedom of Expression:

- I cherish the freedom to express one’s beliefs and ideologies. However, this freedom does not extend to hatred or violence against others.

- Community and Connection:

- Building a community based on mutual respect and understanding is fundamental. Differences should be discussed civilly, and relationships should be nurtured through genuine connection.

Life Purpose:

My life purpose is to model, teach, and advocate for a world where respect, understanding, and non-violence are core principles. I aim to foster environments—both online and offline—where diverse perspectives are valued and where everyone’s basic human rights are upheld.

Commitments:

- Respectful Discourse:

- I commit to engaging in discussions, particularly online, with respect and without resorting to negativity or hatred. I will moderate my spaces to ensure they remain safe and respectful for all participants.

- Advocacy:

- I will actively advocate for the rights and respect of all individuals, especially those whose ideologies differ from mine. My advocacy is rooted in the belief that everyone deserves dignity and respect.

- Education:

- I dedicate myself to learning about diverse perspectives and encouraging others to do the same. This involves seeking out educational resources and sharing knowledge respectfully.

- Non-Violence:

- I will practice and promote non-violence in all interactions and will stand firmly against any form of violence or threat thereof.

Daily Practices:

- Mindful Reflection:

- Daily meditation and journaling to reflect on my actions and ensure they align with my values.

- Active Learning:

- Engaging in continuous learning activities, such as reading and attending seminars, to broaden my understanding of different perspectives.

- Community Engagement:

- Participating in and facilitating weekly gatherings focused on respectful and constructive dialogue.

Challenges and Growth:

- Facing Negativity:

- Recognizing that negativity and hatred will arise, I will prepare myself to handle these situations calmly and assertively, maintaining my commitment to non-violence and respect.

- Personal Growth:

- I will seek feedback from trusted friends and mentors to grow continuously and to correct my course when necessary.

Conclusion:

I vow to live by these promises, embracing and advocating for respect, non-violence, and understanding in every aspect of my life. As I strive to make the world a better place, I draw inspiration from the words of Mahatma Gandhi: "Be the change that you wish to see in the world." This is my promise—to myself and to the Universe.