My life is my responsibility

Life can either be a tragedy or it can be a beautiful love story. 

Either it can be just a series of miseries, nightmares or it can be just a continuum of celebration. 

It all depends on us , what we make out of it.

It is an empty canvas. We have to paint it.

We can make a monster on the canvas and can become frightened by it or we can create a beautiful sunset or flowers and we can be enchanted by it.

Remember: man comes into the world as an empty canvas. God does not give any programme to you, you are not programmed. There is nothing like fate; it is the invention of the cowards, it is the invention of people who don't want to make anything out of their life -- who are so lazy, so cowardly, that they don't want to take any risk. They throw the whole responsibility on god. They call it fate, kismet, karma and thousands of names, but all are basically tricks to avoid the responsibility that 'My life is my responsibility. 

Whatsoever I am I have made it that way and whatsoever I am going to be tomorrow I am creating today.

Nothing can be done about yesterday; there is no need to bother about it, it is finished.

But today is still available and out of today all the tomorrows will be coming.

And if one is alert just a small touch can change the whole story.

Two small boys were talking; one boy was the son of a great painter. He said 'My father is such a great artist. Just the other day I was watching him painting. He painted a picture and the man was looking so miserable that I said to him "Father, why are you making him so miserable?" He said "Okay, I will change it." And with just one stroke of his brush the man started smiling!' And the other boy said 'That's nothing, my mother does it every day: without even having a paintbrush, just one stroke and she can make me cry or weep. That's nothing much. Not even a stroke, just the way she looks is enough.'

We are absolutely responsible for whatsoever we are.