My Ex Says He Misses Me but Doesn't Contact Me (My Ex Boyfriend Says He Misses Me but Makes No Effort)

My ex says he misses me but doesn't contact me - My ex boyfriend says he misses me but makes no effort.?

Your lab partner in science class can get quite annoying when he repeatedly tells you that he finally made contact with aliens from outer space. That guy doesn't have to worry about girls but you might be starting to think that talking to aliens is easier than getting your ex to return your calls.

Step 1: Peak Their Interest: When your science partner sees an ad for a Now Music 25 CD on TV he does nothing but if a Stephen Hawking science kit comes across the screen he's grabbing that first pen out of his pocket protector. Similarly, if you want your ex to contact you, spark her flames.

Step 2: Do Nothing: This tip is to do absolutely noting in regards to the relationship. If you act indifferent about whether you want her back or likewise don't call every 10 minutes to beg her back, she'll contact you, if anything just to make sure you still have a pulse.

Step 3: Make Them Want To Call You: You can get your ex to contact you by leaving a message that says you're on fire and need their help but remember that your goal is to make them want to call you.

Step 4: Let Them Sort Things Out: You can't rush your ex into contacting you when they're simply not ready. The best thing you can do is give them a little time to let the dust settle, then start to crank up your approach to making them a nervous, jealous wreck.

Step 5: Make Up Something: You can think outside the box here but only if you've got something that will win them back chambered in your head. If you call to tell them you're on fire, you better have something better to say than, "Just kidding, hey while I have you on the line do you want to hook back up?"

Step 6: What Are Your Motives: Do you want your ex to contact you so that you can tell them you really want to stay friends and had a good time dating them or are you going to threaten your cat's life if they don't come back to you? Make sure your motives are sincere before you put everybody in an awkward situation.

Step 7: Be Respectful: All the famous string bikini models these days have the word 'respect' tattooed on them somewhere. It seems what girls and guys want most in life is respect. If you treat your ex with class, they won't hesitate the next time they want to call you up to tell you a funny story or invite you to a party.

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If you have just gone through a break up and you are asking yourself "How can I get back together with my ex boyfriend", then the first two things that you are going to want to remember are sacrifice and compromise and how important they are in a relationship. Now putting the pieces of a broken relationship back together is no easy task, so rest assured that the advice I am going to give you today will help you start to give your ex a reason to get back together with you and make this process a little easier on yourself.

It's hard to stop thinking to yourself, asking yourself how you can get back together with your ex boyfriend (and this is very normal), but obsessing about this is not going to get you back together. What you need to do is pay attention to the reason you failed in the first place, and try to rectify that. This is important because this is what brought the separation on to begin with and by rectifying the causes you will be able to relieve some of the stress between the two of you.

Let's talk about how to get back together with your ex boyfriend...

Relationships do not fail for no reason. If your relationship has failed, this is a clear indication that something went wrong in your relationship. Now, if it was less of a mutual break up and more of your boyfriend leaving you, there are a couple of reasons that caused this... To put is simply, there was either too much of you or not enough of you. And if you want to get back together with your ex boyfriend, it's important that you figure out which one of these two things caused the break up so you can focus on fixing the problem, which ever one it is.

This may be hard for you to hear right now (and I don't mean to be harsh, but I'm only trying to help), but the issue that caused the break up was most likely either something that you did, or maybe something that you didn't do, but one of the two. In a relationship, the person that leaves or the person that is doing the breaking up usually feels driven away by something the person who was broken up with did, or didn't do.

So your probably still thinking "Okay, so how can I get him back?"

Well, the first step to trying to get back together with your ex boyfriend is find out what is was that drove him away (something you did or didn't do), and work on changing it. It's best to take a step back, and ponder your situation. Really try to focus and think to yourself "What could have led to this?". Once you come to the realization of what led to the break up, then ask yourself if those things are your fault, or not your fault.

Another important thing for you to do is to only focus on changing the things YOU did wrong, or that were your fault. If you feel that some of the things contributing to the break up were out of your control and not your fault, then leave them be for now. If it's out of your control, then you can do much to fix it anyways. If you feel that one of the biggest contributing factors in the split was something that you did wrong and you are willing to put forth the effort and make the changes that you need to make to fix it, the chances of you getting back together are pretty good.

Here's the bottom line... Getting back together after a break up is not easy, but it can be done. You will have to be willing to put forth the time and effort necessary to take the proper steps to mending your relationship. Simple knowing how to get back together with your ex boyfriend is just not enough to actually get him back.

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If this is you, then you are wanting to know how to persuade your ex boyfriend to get back together with you again. If you do not mind, can I ask you why? I know that you may be feeling lonely right now and maybe even a bit scared of being on your own, but is this a good reason to get back together again.

Just think about being single for a moment. What are the benefits that you can see? You can choose what you want to do, when you want to do it and with whom. Do you still find this scary? Think about this - if you are still with Mr. Wrong, what happens when you meet Mr. Right? Is it then appropriate to dump your current guy to go out with another man straight away?

I have always said and I will say it again, you cannot meet Mr. Right, when you are still with Mr. Wrong. So, do not go back to your ex just because you do not want to be on your own. View this time as an opportunity to grow as a person and find out who you are and what you really want in life. Knowing who you are makes it easier for the love of your life to get to know you, when you finally meet him. In addition, cliche as it is, good things are still worth waiting for.

On the other hand, if one or both of you behaved badly, or there was just a misunderstanding, and you realize that you do love each other then get together, meet up somewhere neutral or that holds good memories for you, and apologize and clarify the situation.

Sometimes when a guy runs out on a girl, it is not that he does not love her. It is that he may think he is missing something else or just have cold feet. The thought of being with one person can be scary to him, as much as being alone can be scary for girls. If you think that this might be the case, think back on the ways he treated you before the breakup. Chances are if he is a decent guy and was respectful of you, then he may be regretting leaving, or breaking up with you now. Another thing to remember is that if he took you home to meet his Mum and the rest of the family, then he was thinking about a future with you together.

It helps to see things from your boyfriend's perspective, so that when you do talk about your relationship with him, you can resolve your issues together with understanding. Be willing to hear each other out, and when expressing what could be hurtful feelings, own them by saying, "I feel..." rather than "You make me feel..."

Be open and honest with each other and do not forget to let each other know how you actually feel about them. This is not a time to point the finger in blame. In fact, there is never a good time to blame any person. There is no room in an adult relationship for childish behavior. Use this opportunity to use any constructive criticism to grow as individuals and as a couple.

Make sure that you both know what you want in life going forward. This is helpful whether you stay together or not. It is important that when you make a commitment to be together that you agree how you will resolve your differences and work on it. Any time that you are angry at each other, remember that it is your feeling you are expressing and it is the problem not your partner that is the issue.

I hope these tips help you, if you are trying to persuade an ex boyfriend to get back together with you again, or, perhaps it has helped you with moving on.

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