My dreams haunted me for years...

If self-worth had a scale, I would’ve registered on the minus side, from as early as I can remember,?through to my late twenties.??

It didn’t matter what was in front of me, I knew in advance that I would fail at it. If everyone around me was succeeding, it just added fuel to an already roaring fire, flames that fiercely whispered “you’re not good enough”?

Back then, I was (& I still consider myself to be) a relatively intelligent person but even that had no impact on my lack of self-worth.?

Here's the interesting part; if you’d have met me back then, you probably would’ve thought I had it together. I was out-going, confident, strong and didn’t appear to have any real problems.??

What people didn’t realise was inside I was torturing myself, I hated being me!?

I would replay every conversation I had with people, questioning what I should’ve said differently.??

I put everyone else first, often at my own expense because I believed they were worth more than I was.?

I felt jealous of other people’s lives, of their success, something I never thought I could have.??

I got myself into debt, a bad relationship, ill health... I treated myself badly and let others treat me as poorly as I believed.??

I constantly worried that I was going to mess up, people would judge me and so I never pushed myself.?

Better to shoot small and succeed than dream big and fail right??

Well, the problem I had, is that the dreams I wasn't pursuing started to haunt me.?

After a lifetime of playing, it safe, I decided to embark on a journey of personal development. Boy, I had a lot of issues to work through! My journals, yes that’s plural told a sad tale. ?

I had no idea what it would entail, this journey...?

But, somewhere deep inside I knew that life could be better, Maybe I just hadn’t worked out how.?

What I now know is that when your dreams are bigger than the value you have for yourself, they will never happen.?Can I repeat that?

If your dreams are bigger than the value you have for yourself, they will never happen!?

No amount of positive affirmations, putting pictures of a vision board, journals or picturing the life I dreamed of was going to change my life. ?

I needed something that changed how I felt about me.??

Hallelujah... after much searching, I found it!?

Learning the coaching tools that I now train to others, changed my whole life.?Forget career for a moment, I'm talking my whole life, everything. ?

In such a short space of time, I went from feeling like I had nothing to offer the world to knowing that I could be, do and have everything I wanted. That was real change!?

Of course, that didn’t mean that I woke up one day with a Lamborghini on the drive, parked next to my private jet on my own private island... ?????

What it means is that I now believe whole-heartedly in me, which is everything.??

I still mess up, get things wrong but that’s ok. I’m out there, I’m doing it, learning as I go and I accept myself fully. Something I never thought I would be able to say out loud, let alone mean it too!?

When you believe in yourself, anything is possible!?

If you want to find out more about how you can … (well, that bit is over to you)?

But, you can start your journey right now. ?

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