My dreams - my desires - how do I achieve them?

Sometimes when my dreams and desires don't get fulfilled (why sometimes? sometimes most of the time), I have many things/situations/people to blame. I have a big pandora box which gets opened at such situation and analysis begins by deliberating who's dunnit? After such analysis, I am satisfied internally as I know why I couldn't get such dreams fulfilled . After a short break, cycle restarts.

I am at ease very conveniently because I don't have to take responsibility of my actions. I am totally dependent on my environment and look for finding a scapegoat all the time. I think I am the only person on this earth who is so hard working, indispensable and most sought after. I don't want to take accountability of my actions as I think I am the best and people around me are worst.

Is this a common feeling? Answer to such feeling is "introspection" as there is a concept of 'oneness of self and environment". We should be managing our environment rather than letting environment manage us. Be over the environment through your courage, compassion and wisdom. I don't want to sound like spiritually acclaimed writer but genuinely want to share tried and trusted method. Now come the "how" part....I will cover that in my next article till then please write to me if you agree with this...thanks!