My busy badge.

My busy badge.

I decided I am going to stop wearing this busy badge after listening to John Kehoe and how working hard is not what it is all cut out to be. John highlights the downside of it. The first downside is it does not give you quality of life and the second downside is that you do not get quality ideas. Like wow! Who would have thought? I sat up and put my hand up and I totally agree even before making that conscious decision.

It freaked me out as I decided I am going to be judged by my fellow human being but something has got to give. My health was waning away. My blood pressure is sky-high. I was overweight. I was snappy and anxious most of the time. I constantly felt under attack. What am I going to tell people now when they ask me how I am doing?! I still feel awkward when people ask how I am. I was hoping that people are so 'busy' that when I tell them my new story they will not even notice.

The collective consciousness is so hardcore that to unplug from it is hell. What made it so important to me was that I did not like what I was becoming. I have turned into an ogre and time was always of the essence. Running around like a headless chicken and having no time to properly connect with people let alone myself.

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The do's and dont's.

Don't

  1. Be hard on yourself. This is not going to be an easy journey.
  2. Worry about what people say. You will never make anyone happy so focus on making you happy as it is very infectious.
  3. Feel guilty.
  4. Justify your actions.
  5. Say sorry.

Do

  1. Change your story. Be creative and true to yourself.
  2. Love yourself enough to know it is necessary to take this step.
  3. Become still. Try and find quietness as there you will find peace.
  4. Unplug from people that make it their business to be busy.
  5. Seek to add value for the greater good of all.

Conclusion

What does busy mean to you and have you felt the pressure of comparing yourself to others and feeling guilty? All I know is this. The more I say I am living life and have peace and tranquility, the more the Universe assists me in creating what I now know is good for my well-being.

Decide what is important for you and place your attention on your intention. Dream of that perfect life and believe that you are powerful enough to create it. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise. You are a force to be reckoned with and creativity in your grasp.

Remember

The sky is no longer the limit. Go out there and spread your wings beautiful.

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BENSAHNOUNE NOUREDDINE( Civil Engineer )

Project Engineer at Africab Tanzania ( Civil Engineer | 07 Years of Experience in Construction , Execution and supervision of projects & Project Management | Open to Global Opportunities

1 年
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BENSAHNOUNE NOUREDDINE( Civil Engineer )

Project Engineer at Africab Tanzania ( Civil Engineer | 07 Years of Experience in Construction , Execution and supervision of projects & Project Management | Open to Global Opportunities

1 年

With over 06 years of experience in civil engineering and construction /cement plant and important infrastructure industries in many different countries , I have served as a site engineer in Algeria ( my mother country ) with an important exposure to civil engineering technology and construction standard methods and insuring the structures quality control . then as a civil works supervisor for Agility logistics Park Project in Ivory Coast , In my most recent role, I held the position of Site Agent Engineer in Zanzibar island- Tanzania, currently I’m looking for a new role. I am open to relocating for the right job opportunity. And I am flexible and willing to consider positions available worldwide, allowing me to gain diverse professional experiences. Additionally, I am fluent in English, French, and Arabic, enabling me to communicate effectively with international teams and stakeholders. Thank you for considering my application. I look forward to the possibility of discussing how my skills and experiences can contribute to your organization's success. Best regards, Bensahnoune Noureddine My WhatsApp : +255 772 579 686 Email : [email protected]

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Esté Tukker (CMILT)

BCom Bus Mngment | Int Dip Logistics Mngment | Int Dip Purchasing Mngment | Int Dip Export Mngment

1 年

Great piece and so relevant.! Thanks. If I may add, being "busy"could also be a person's coping mechanism or escape from another reality. This journey we call life, is complicated and not everyone is equipped well enough to see it (yet). Sometimes it may be that a person unconsciously create drama by being "busy" to avoid the challenge they face. Let us be kind to our-self and to those around us as we learn new ways. #selfawareness

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David Yiriviel Wondoh (PE-GhIE)

Electrical||Sustainable Technologies||Maintenance||Reliability

1 年

Thanks for the great piece Yolanda S. ! I have a question. Is great working smart with results. But how does one navigate in a corporate world where working hard is emphasised over working smart?

Anne-Marie Lombard

Freelance Executive Assistance Consultant | Corporate Document Structuring & Compliance Specialist | Project Coordination Professional

1 年

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