Mr./Ms. Right
I just saw your question....a great one!!!! Let me see how to answer this.........There are 2 Mr. Rights.....the Mr. Right that a man feels that he is; and the Mr. Right that the woman "may" be looking for....Each man would have his own version/opinion of what makes him Mr. Right to himself......To me, what makes me Mr Right to myself, and I'm not afraid to admit and acknowledge it....is......All the requirements of being a Boy Scout...(Trustworthy, Loyal,......Brave, Clean and Reverent)....I was a Life Scout....almost Eagle but quit in protest over politics in the troop.....I am a Libra-Tiger......a peacemaker, and desire things to be fair, but not afraid to fight the fiercest enemy when it comes to right and wrong....I have a strong moral code.....No....I don't love dancing or music of today.....But I love music to meditate by, that makes me feel at peace with my world and brings me visions as if I was meditating in a sweat lodge....I don't go clubbing.....I read, discuss, analyze.....play chess if and when I have the time; I love car trips in nature; I love mountains...not the ocean (I'm an air sign, after all; can't change my stripes....lol)....I love being emotionally and intellectually intimate with my partner.....Physicality is lots of fun; but when compared to the real joy of experiencing one's spirit, it pales......My Ms. Right I would hope, would be able to appreciate and even look up to this kind of Mr. Right.....because she herself would have these qualities.....there would be nothing to "put up with"....There would be a "meeting of the minds"......and of the souls......Each one of us has a different kind of Mr. or Ms. Right......I cannot change because I've learned who I am and have learned to love who I've become....And I would hope and pray that MY Ms. Right would value and cherish these qualities, as well.....just sayin......
- Sid Benedict