Move in silence and be hunble

Ever since I was a little girl I was never impressed with a person who had the need to be a show off.

My Godfather, was a classic example of a show off and would often boast of his achievements. He was also a philanthropist and at the same time would let everyone know when he was donating as he got on a high people knowing he was donating money and craved being validated from others.

I must of been around 10 years old at the time and I remember observing my Godfather behaviour.

To me I just saw a man who wasn't giving from his heart, but rather giving to let everyone know he has money and to show off his statues.

I also realised whenever someone would stand up to him and call him out from his show off tactics or arrogance, he didn't like it. Oh Yeah forgot to mention he was also a narcissist.

Though he donated his money to worthy courses, his soul wasn't generous and he didn't like it if anyone was doing better than him and in general kissed his butt.

I remember thinking to myself, what a prick, but at the same time without even realising it, it was my first lesson in the importance of moving in silence and staying humble.

For me it was a valuable lesson and defiantly one which has served its purpose for me in all areas from work, relationships and the growth of my ID.

See, when you promote humbleness you promote the following attributes to flourish within you such as:

• You show the high level of self control and sense of self mastery within yourself.
• You admit when you are wrong and more inclined in improving your flaws.
• You attract more positive people that share your attitude and mindset.
• You don’t take things for granted or look down on people.
• You treat people the way they want to be treated with respect, kindness and make it easier for yourself to not entertain if they don't meet you half way in treating you the same.
• You are more in tuned with your needs and honour them without seeking validation from others.

But when you apply silence to your humbleness this is when you up your game; after all, it is no one's business what you do but your own.

in my experience when one moves in silence that individual is confident within themselves and the actions they apply.

Regardless, if their actions go against them when moving in silence they learn from the weaknesses and convert them into strengths

Seeking approval from others is a no no, but this doesn't mean they won't consider others peoples opinions, they just know what should be taken onboard and what is a waste of time and doesn't benefit them from reaching their self growth.

All in all, moving in silence has the following rewards:

• You become more confident in the decisions you make.
• You have less destructions around you from other people and train yourself to be aligned with your true needs and take action.
• You allow yourself to stay focused, protect your goals and progress, and build confidence in yourself.
• Unfortunately, there may be people who are not supportive of your goals or who may even try to sabotage your efforts. Moving in silence can help protect you from negative energy or criticism that could hinder your progress.
• When you talk too much about your goals or plans, you may become distracted by other people's opinions or suggestions.
• Moving in silence allows you to stay focused on your own vision without being swayed by external influences.

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