Move with people that make you happy | Fola Daniel Adelesi
Fola Daniel Adelesi
International Keynote Speaker | Training Facilitator | PR & Comms | Corporate Event Host
It's important to stay with people who make you happy because life is too short. There are too many challenges around and if you focus on those challenges around you, you can get easily depressed. You don't need depression, regardless of what you're dealing with.
Regardless of the issues, regardless of the challenges, you don't need to be sad. You need to stay with people that make you happy. You need to understand that one of the ways to solve the problems that you're going through today, the challenges that you're facing today, is to be happy because when you're happy, you're able to see things better.
You are able to see things from another perspective. If you stay with people who are happy, you become happier. It's healthy for you.
It's not healthy for you to be sad. So you need to find a way to stay with people who make you happy. I've been in some situations before that I just wanted to be left alone.
I wasn't happy about them, but I would have preferred to be left alone in that situation where I wasn't happy. I would have preferred to be left alone to think about those situations and to be a bit moody. But all of a sudden, somebody just comes around.
The person is full of excitement. The person is trying to cheer me up and I'm wondering, oh, please don't try to make me laugh. I just want to be here.
But I realized that what they were doing was a lot better for me. And I've seen other people too who are down, who are thinking, oh, this is not good enough. I don't like what I'm going through.
Oh, I'm 30. Oh, I'm 40. I'm 50. I've not achieved this. I've not done that. I'm yet to do this thing. I've not done my master's degree. I've not gotten a car yet. I don't have a house yet.
If you think about all those things, you're going to be perpetually depressed because some of those things will come eventually and some of them may never come. Don't determine your worth by what comes your way or what doesn't come your way. Let your self-esteem be internal.
Let it be innate. Let it be what comes from within you. So stay with people who don't reach you on the basis of what you have on the outside, but who you are on the inside.
That's why it's very important to stay with people who make you happy, not the people who talk to you about all the bad things going on around the world. If there are people around you who are constantly talking about every negative thing and never see anything good in any situation, you need to start avoiding such people. Do you know why? The negative energy that they carry, the negative vibe that they are passing around.
You're going to catch that bug very soon. And before you know it, you will never see anything good in any situation. You'll never see any reason for you to be happy and you will always talk about things that are going wrong.
You always talk about why you should not be happy, why you should not celebrate and you're going to become a sadist very soon. You don't want to be a sadist. There's no reason to be a sadist.
A sadist will always transfer the energy to everyone around you. And before you know it, people will begin to avoid you like a plague. Don't be a sadist.
Stay with people that make you happy. I understand perfectly that there are reasons for you to be sad. There are reasons for you to be concerned.
There are reasons for you to think, oh, what's there to celebrate? But you're still alive and so long as you're still alive, there is something for you to be happy about. There is something for you to celebrate. Things can change.
Things can become better. So stay with people that make you happy and be that person as well who makes all the people happy. Don't look for happiness in other people.
As you stay with people who make you happy, make sure you're also transferring your own joy, your happiness to other people. Cheer them up. Cheer them out of their depression.
Cheer them out of their sad situations. Cheer them out of their demoralizing situations as well. They've failed, cheer them up.
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They've not excelled at the things they thought they were going to excel at, cheer them up. They've not gotten a car yet. They've not gotten a house yet.
They didn't get that mortgage. Cheer them up. Don't be that person who wants to be with people when they are sad alone.
Stay with people too that make you happy.
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