On Mother's Day

This article does not pertain to them who are not like that which is described as below, with an apology from all those, who are good to mother. An apology in advance for any sort hurting the feeling of any one.

O my maa,ami,mom n mother, i want to apologize to you for being the most disobedient,stupid,idiot and foolish person in the world. You kept me in your womb for nine months. You did all works while carrying me in your sweet womb, which was my first sweet home. You fed me, even at that time, when you were not even assured about giving birth to me alive.I was of no use or benefit to you. Neither, i had not done any thing for you nor you expect or demand any thing from me. With all pains and no expectation of gains, you kept me alive in the darkness of your womb. In that darkness, you proved yourself to be first ray of light for me, I have no brain n wisdom, no sources n resources, i have nothing of my own, you gave me every thing, which was needed by me, to keep me alive. You scarified all your rejoicing activities for my well being, protection, life and vogue hope to bring me in this world, I was helpless, you did every thing to help me. Whatever, you ate, you shared it with me. You made yourself uncomfortable, to keep me comfortable. You make yourself dirty, to keep me clean. Your womb became my first play ground of life, where i moved here and there. You loved my movements, along with bearing pains of my movements, with a smile on your lips, without any complaint, even without any annoyance or wrinkle or crinkle on your forehead. You kept me warm when there is cold inside. You kept me cool when there is hot inside. You became first air conditioner for me with an unshakable conviction to give me every comfort which is even known or demanded by me. You were well aware of my all needs, when i even could not aware of them. You were well aware of all my needs and you paid all heeds to them. You fell sick and kept me healthy. You started moving slowly, while thinking not to disturb my sleeping time. I used to keep slept when you were awaken at day time, you did not even try to feel yourself drowsy, when i was awaken. I used to start playing at every night,when you were dying of your tiredness, fatigued and exhausted, after completion of your daily routine tasks. You gave clothes of your womb, when i was naked. You clothed me and wrapped my nudity in your womb.You demand from me nothing and gave me every thing silently without any expectation. You made me a full human from one alive cell (chromosome).  

You born all pain to give me birth and i was brought in this beautiful world. What i did to you to you, nothing. You continued to discharge your duties and responsibilities on daily basis. You played same role, as you did, when i was helpless and cipher. I was then brought by you and grown up now. I forgot every thing. I got married with a lady, who had done nothing till the date of my first meeting or mating with her. I took charge of my family, comprising of me and my spouse, with or without kids and all other ancillary relatives from both side of spouses. You were not even worth mentioning in general sense of the word, family. I left your home or stayed with you, i remained indifferent with you. Whenever, you tried to express your wish me to sit for a while with you, i always had the most important task to be accomplished, which if not done, then there may be a disaster in my life personally or professionally. You remained a mother for me since i took place in you, but i could never be a son.I do not blame my professional responsibilities, personal obligations, spouse, kids, relatives,friends or any thing else. 

O Mother, I remained always, your first priority, but you were not even my last.

 You are still alive, while seeing me, flourishing, prospering, progressing and growing in professional and personal life. Always watching me with empty eyes, longing that some day her son shall come to her directly and say o maa, today i have all time for you. I will accompany you only. We are lost in our lives so much that we remember our lord or creator or even nothing if being an atheist, that a mother is remembered, for sharing our problems, sufferings, miseries or troubles only.

We have always used our mothers, a white board hanging at wall of our life, on which every kid come, write down, problems, complaints or any thing that is irritating and offending us in our life. Any one of us has ever thought, that we always shared such things with our mothers, which are a source of contemplation and brain storming for her. we ever tried to make her comfortable, as she did or still doing, since where we were in embryonic state.No n Never.

Some day, take a day out from all assignments, targets, tasks,deals,meetings, business,spouse,kids, friends and almost rest of world, just think for one moment only, what my mother has did for me. Even she has died during delivery and you are alive, even then, she has scarified herself to keep you alive. We travel thousand miles to get or achieve our goals personally, professionally, religiously,mystically or for any other good reason, but we could never cross the boundary of the room, where the person is residing, who is first source of life and all our subsequent achievements and accomplishments. 

Please realize the actual stature of mother. Her scarifies, sufferings, pains, labours, patience and all other which i could not write down. If your mother is alive, please take good care of her, if she is not alive, then pray for her and try to do such saying and doing which may please her, if she see, listen or even feel to them. Please never compromise the pleasure of your mother as it is duty of son or daughter to provide it to her as a compliment of all her endeavours for our lives.

 I love you mom.