Most of us could use more confidence, but do you know how to summon it when it matters most?
Paul Melella Jr
Author of Best Seller, YOU Have Infinite Power | Co-Founder of Empowered Mastery/ premier coach for Financial Advisors and business professionals
Every human has the ability to develop and access this energy of confidence. But, what is confidence? It’s a feeling right? A feeling of what? Is it a feeling of certainty? Certainly that you will succeed or that you have achieved in the past? The good news is that confidence is accessible to you at almost any moment because, ultimately, confidence is a mindset and behavioral pattern.
I can ask you questions about a time in your life when you felt amazing, strong, happy, and empowered and you probably felt that you could do anything in that moment. Once we identify a few of these confidence memories...we can train ourselves to feel that confidence at any moment, but that only comes from competence and self mastery.
Unfortunately, most people are skilled at being insecure. Plenty of people are smart and capable but hate themselves, limit themselves, and fail to express themselves all the time.
A lot of people can get things done, but don't like or trust themselves because they are uncertain that they can accomplish or achieve their outcome. In order to achieve our goals for 2021, we must train ourselves to become more confident and certain until that behavior dominates every action we take.