Most people fall out to love by Valentine's Day
Happy Valentine's Day and I wish you all the love and happiness in the world.
However, I wanted to give you a warning about Valentines Day. By February 14th, 95% of people would have already given up on their goals and new year resolutions. They fall out of love with their goals and new year resolutions.
It is great to have goals and new year resolutions because our nature is one of growth and progress and usually our goals are aimed at something greater than what we currently have and do. Tony Robbins once said that Happiness comes from progress and he is absolutely right, as happiness is a journey.
Happiness is a journey towards our fullest potential. Just like success, happiness is really something that is unique to each individual but the trouble is that people have not really identified their uniqueness in the world. Our uniqueness is our highest potential. People pursue generic goals and dreams, those of other people and this is why they give up by Valentine's Day, they fall out of love with their goals. If your goals are not tied to your purpose and vision for your life, the motivation to pursue your goals will decrease very fast and this is why most people give up on working on their goals and new year resolutions by February 14, Valentines Day.
Oscar Wilde said 'Most people are other people' and this is so relevant up to today. He was making reference to the fact that most people's goals are based on what they see other people have and not really based on what will really make them happy and fulfilled. Most people choose goals based on what their parents want them to be and do or on fitting into society to be accepted and many other ego-based reasons. I truly believe that a major source of unhappiness and lack of fulfilment for people is that they are not living their uniqueness, their purpose, their reason for being on this earth. They are not pursuing the 'right' goals for themselves. They are not pursuing goals aligned to their purpose.
You are probably in the position where I was for most of my life where I had some notion that there was more to my life than what I was doing but I did not know who to talk to and how to extract and articulate my purpose. When I discovered what I believe to be my purpose, my uniqueness, my reason for being on this earth it was so liberating and I am still in love with with my purpose, 7 years on. It is the reason that I have dedicated my life now to helping people to find their purpose and share it with the world without losing their financial security.
My book, How to Get Success to Start Chasing You is actually about purpose and the fact that when you find it and start to live it, success starts to chase you and you cannot help but become successful, fulfilled and happy.
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The key to staying in love with your goals way beyond Valentines Day is to set the Right Goals for YOU and the right goals are ones based on finding and living your purpose.
My Valentine's gift to you is a Strategy Session with me to help you discover the right goals for you, the ones you will be in love with for a long time, the ones that will be so much easier to achieve than the ones you are currently pursuing. Register here for your free Strategy Session https://shaneram.com/happiness-strategy-session/
About Shane Ram:
Shane Ram is a Happiness Engineer and Life Coach. He is the inventor and creator of Scientific Happiness, a proven system to help you find job and personal fulfilment. He has worked with thousands of people over the last 18 years from over 70 different countries. He is a husband, father, author, Human Resources Expert and Entrepreneur. #ScientificHappiness #Happiness