Money — How To Align With It Through Self-Confidence
Godfrey Esoh Nji
Founder of The African Meta University | Digital Transformation Strategist | Clinical Scientist | Career Growth Consultant | Business and Leadership Coach
Do you feel worthy of the money that you are asking for? Does the idea of being rich feel natural to you? If you do not become the emotional equivalent of the money you seek, all your work will be in vain. In this article, we will reflect on the role of self-confidence in attracting money.
You have probably heard that success is 95% mindset and 5% strategy. As shocking as that may sound to you, it is a very modest way of putting it. Science now tells us that the observable universe is less than 0.0001% matter and more than 99.999% Space. This Space is what has been termed the Quantum Vacuum and it is filled with energy and consciousness. Going a step further, we know that our universe is just a tiny speck within a boundless infinity. That means that in a very literal sense, that which is invisible is the only Reality, while the visible is mere shadows. The magic of life is to master the domain of Causation. When we do, the outer effects take care of themselves like magic. Now, you will find a million gurus for each tactic that you want to use to make money or succeed in life. But there is only a handful of us who have the gift to take you on the deeper journey. It is the road less traveled that makes all the difference. I will be recommending some carefully selected resources that you can work with to apply these lessons and create the results you want. But first, let us work on the real cause of all the phenomena in your life — YOU!
We have agreed that everything in existence is the expression of a Source that is One, Spirit, Conscious, and Intentional. We take it for granted that creation has a Creator. What does not immediately occur to us is that creativity, the process by which the Creator becomes his creation, is actually the self-fulfillment of the Creator.
Can you imagine the feeling that I am feeling as I write these words?
Can you imagine the feeling that Ronaldo feels when he is scoring a penalty?
Can you imagine the feeling that Beyonce, Mr. Leo, or Davido are feeling when they are on stage?
Can you imagine the feeling that an architect has when he stands afar and looks at his finished building?
Can you imagine the feeling a mother has when she sets eyes on her newborn child for the first time?
We, as human spirits are Potential. We live under the urge to experience the Potential that we are, and we gain our joy or fulfillment from these experiences of self. This is the dynamic of creativity. If we are images of God, the individuation of Infinite Spirit, then we can only infer that this is the same process going on within God or Infinite Being. Life is an Infinite Potential, seeking to experience itself, and gaining its fulfillment in this experience of self.
The seeking of self-experience is that spontaneous overflow of Love or Grace or Intention that we saw in the 4th Universal Principle. Life is therefore the process of Divine Creativity, and creation is the Glory of God, or the blossoming of God. The difference between the human urge and the Divine Urge is this. The human urge is caused by the Divine Urge or Law within which man exists. On the other hand, it cannot be said that God is urged into action by anything outside of Himself since He is all that is. Thus, the Divine Urge is The Divine Will. And we saw above that the Divine Will is that Principle called Intention.
Let us now examine how this principle of Manifestation applies to your life. The Life Force or Will of God or Divine Intention is like a waterfall gorging out of Pure Spirit and seeking its glory or fulfillment. Expression or manifestation is the resting place of this force. Just as the artist is restless until he has painted the picture in his mind, God, the Universal Artist is “restless” until He has materialized the image in his mind. Creation is God’s painting painted on the canvas of space. When you are hungry, you find fulfillment when you have eaten your favorite dish to your satisfaction.
God is always hungry because God is Infinite Potential. You are a creative avenue through which God fulfills Himself. Thus, every time you manifest a creative act, you bring more fulfillment (glory) to God who is always yearning for more expression. Does this give you an idea of your role on this planet and what your possibilities are? On one hand, you are the expression of God.
On the other hand, you are here to give expression to God. God is Infinite Potential flowing through you like a waterfall, seeking fulfillment (glory) in manifestation. Your manifestations are the glory of God. Now that you know this truth, you will never again feel that something is too good for you or too big for you. Now that you know this truth you will never ask for permission from anyone again or think that you don’t have what it takes to realize your dream. It is not you that is living. It is the Father who abides in you that is doing his work (Cf John 14:10).
Your self-perception determines your self-esteem; Your self-esteem determines your expectations; Your expectations determine your efforts; Your efforts determine your results. There are people who live in the consciousness of inferiority. They don’t feel deserving of the splendor of life, so they expect only crumbs. Because they expect only crumbs from life, they put in just enough effort to get the paycheck that will keep their heads above water.
Then there are the few who know that they are kings and queens and have a divine right to all the goodness of this life. They do not wait for anyone to give anything to them. They fold their sleeves, get to work, and claim their inheritance, even if it is by force. Someday you will get tired of merely existing; someday you will get tired of merely surviving. On that day, you will start living and you will find the wings with which to fly and thrive.
Every Success Coach will tell you that you cannot be successful if you do not have self-confidence. What they fail to tell you is that self-confidence is not something you learn. In fact, many people spend huge sums of money attending seminars and courses that claim to teach them self-confidence. What these programs do is that they give you a mental high that helps you to inflate like a balloon for a while, only to deflate later down the road.
Self-confidence is an inner certainty of what you deserve, what you are entitled to, and what you are capable of, by virtue of who you know yourself to be. In other words, self-confidence is the feeling of what is natural for you. The daughter of a king feels natural going to school in a Limousine. It is her reality. The son of the village shoe mender does not have a Limousine as his reality, so he can only get to that level if he changes his status. The day he becomes a billionaire, it will feel natural for him to ride in a Limousine.
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What I am trying to demonstrate here is that it is futile to try to teach a call box operator to feel self-confident that he is going to own a private jet. The only change he needs is to alter his reality. When you change the elevation from which you are living your life, your self-confidence automatically changes to match the reality of that elevation. If you stay in one mental level and try to feel confident about something that belongs to a higher mental plane, you are wasting your time and hurting yourself.
So what is the right approach to self-confidence? It all begins with knowing who you are and what you are here for. You are the human expression of Divine Love, endowed with Divine Potential, and powered by Divine Grace. By virtue of who you are, it is your destiny to become the fullest expression of the glory of God that you can possibly be on this earth.
Come to terms with this fact, and the rest of your life will flow like a river. It is by immersing yourself in the truths revealed through these Universal Principles that you translate your being from the status of the peasant to that of the prince/princess. When you change your status, the things of that status become natural for you and so self-confidence is no longer an effort.
So, whatsoever you have decided that you want, think first of the status to which that thing belongs. Then use that 14 Universal Principles to create the consciousness of that status. When you occupy that status mentally, the thing will feel natural. When the thing begins to feel natural for you, you will be open to receiving it and it will come in miraculous ways.
When you become confident that you deserve what you are asking for, you will become as obstinate as the child who does not understand the meaning of NO and will keep crying till you give her what she wants. You will leave no room for doubt as to whether you will have it or not, and somethings you will have that feeling of certainty on which you can even stake your life.
ACTIVITY
Napoleon Hill narrates the story of a little child who thrashed her landlord by getting the 50cents her mother had sent her to borrow, even though the landlord was in no mood to give her the money. Study this story carefully and try to find out what this child really did to this old man to master and disarm him. The secret that this child manifested spontaneously is one that you can apply deliberately in any area of life if you find it and master it. Can you find it? Can you think of an experience in your life that resembles that of this child?
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