A Moment Of Self-Doubt
Charles Anderson
Peak-Performance Sales Coach - I help experienced B2B sales professionals fast-track their sales success by Conquering the Battles Within. Please text me at 339-927-2746 for a complimentary sales planning call.
Have you ever had a moment of self-doubt? A moment when you desired to do something but found yourself stuck, unable to move. We all have moments when we seriously doubt ourselves and question our self-worth and abilities.
These moments can be short or long, but they are always moments in time that usually pass if we keep an open mind and look beyond the moment.
Sometimes it feels like concrete boots are strapped to both feet.
Self-doubt always comes from fear, insecurity, or negative thinking. In most cases, it’s an illusion that comes from being trapped in your thought and disconnected from your true inner self.?It’s a projection of negative thoughts that impact your self-worth—whom you believe you are and what you can do.
When we doubt ourselves, we lose our points of reference. In those moments of weakness, we look towards others for their approval and confirmation, making us weaker and subject to more doubt.
The fastest way to vanish self-doubt is to focus on self-love. Remembering to be kind, gentle, and loving towards yourself will dissolve the harsh self-criticism, which inevitably leads to self-doubt.
Listen To Your Heart.
This is where real strength, power, and wisdom come from. Doubt raises its ugly head when we are in a tug-of-war between our mind and heart. When we mute the voice of our hearts or lose touch with its wishes, we lose our ability to believe and trust ourselves.
While it feels great to be reassured by others that we are doing a good job or capable of accomplishing a difficult task, it’s equally important to have our own belief in ourselves.
External reassurance doesn’t mean much if we don’t have inner confidence in ourselves.
Be kind to yourself, but don’t shy away from respectfully challenging your problematic thinking that negatively impacts your life.
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