The moment I realized the importance of life and personal development.

My life stopped for a moment at this point: -

It was the year 2017 and I was going through some hardship with my health.

I was working hard to finish all my tasks in an MNC, overseas. One day, I found my weight as 59kg which used to be at 73-75 kg. I was constantly living in the stage of stress and anxiety. I looked like a skeleton. I could not eat properly and when I came home, I was coughing, and one night I did spit blood.

I got horrified and immediately moved to the doctor the next day. And the doctor said you might have TB with a kind of Stomach Ulcer. I was shocked. I started thinking, is it so? Is it the end of my life journey? Suddenly all the predictive bad future thoughts started to flow in front of my eyes like a movie. And, when we are stressed and tense, these kinds of thoughts are very common.

I had my wife and 1-year daughter living with me. What will happen to them?

I and my wife both were worried? What to do? Whether I should move to India or continue the painful treatment there. It was costly enough to burn all my savings.

A few months ago, I won the challenge of the fittest employee, and suddenly this situation?

I started to ask myself. What’s wrong I did? Just hard work? Is it the side effect of hard work?

The decision was so easy, moving back to India.

So, we packed the bag and asked permission from my bosses, and they were so supportive. They immediately allowed me for the treatment with some time for a person to come and take charge, in my absence.

I came back to India and went throw with all testing, checkup, injections, heavy medicines – just to check what kind of disease is this?

Every day something new comes and a new test but my wife kept telling me the importance of Mind Power and Positive Communication. From the upper level, I was saying, “Yes, Nidhe. I am positive”. But deep inside I knew that I was having a roller coaster of negative thoughts.

After 15 days of Strict medication, the reports were in my hand and my doctor said, you almost saved yourself from the “TB” but you are having a first-level stomach ulcer. Which may take 3-4 months to heal.

Now, this looks okay, but when he said, you are not allowed to work and required complete Bed Rest. The next challenge was to sustain a job.

Unfortunately, I could keep one of them. My Job or My Health.

And I have chosen health over that because I thought If I am healthy enough, I will find more opportunities but if there is no “ME”, who will do the “JOB” then.

And, the 3 months medication and focused diet have been planned.

But the two things helped me to overcome this mental and health struggle.

“A Support from family”

“Positive Communication with The Mind”

Because in these 3 months, I have experienced a completely different approach to my life. Which started to find a purpose, Mindpower, positive communication, personal development. Because everything was leading me to live a balanced life. Which I was missing, in my hard-working career. I took the wrong approach for hard work forgetting “ME”.

I have realized my mistake for not being aware of myself. “ME”, the biggest asset of my life.

That day I have realized, “Life is so beautiful, and it is not for a waste.”

All these positive book reading, attending Mind Power workshops, watching positive videos of influencers could make me aware before. I had never realized before and I ignored completely the importance of “Personal Development and Communication with ourselves”. This is the important lesson I have learned from this painful experience of my life. Not just working hard but developing ourselves as a person and focusing on our personal development keeps us aware of “THE BALANCED LIFE”.

From that day, I have changed the whole approach to my life. And started learning and investing in myself and on personal development. It is my responsibility to make my life beautiful, no one else.

I want you to ask, just one question. May I?

Have you ever tried to communicate with your mind, body, heart, and soul to live a Balanced and purposeful life? That is true communication. Listen and understand intuition.

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