The Moment, I Knew it was Time to Listen to my Heart…

It is said, “The teacher will appear when the student is ready.”

Apparently, teachers can come in many forms, and I certainly was not expecting the arrival of my teacher that gray and chilly October morning when I received a phone call from a woman I held (and still do) in high esteem and respect in so many ways.??

It was a particularly stressful time in my life with the pressures of a corporate job, health issues where I had never had any, all while overseeing my staff and the care of my mother who had only a few months to live. To say I thought I could “do it all” is an understatement.?

It never once occurred to me to give myself permission to step out of the race for a bit so I could take care of the only me there is. Nope, I opted for being the Martyr on the verge of a mental and physical breakdown. The exact type of woman I love helping—what’s the saying, “can’t see the forest for the trees”? That was me!?

Upon saying “hello” I was met with a barrage of criticisms and unwarranted accusations. I could feel the angry energy coming through the connection which stunned me. For nearly 10 minutes, I said nothing, just listened as she unleashed what seemed like every transgression she had experienced in her life and directed it all at me. When she finished her storm of rage, I attempted with as much humble dignity and grace as I could summon to understand and apologize for the damage I had caused.?

After finishing the call, I felt so humiliated that I curled up on the floor and cried. This was not a proud moment for me. In fact, this incident brought on so much guilt, embarrassment, and shame that I could not even share the confusion and pain I was feeling with those closest to me or my own coach until months later. By that time, I had done quite a lot of my own soul searching and understood the meaning behind it all.?

Little did I understand at the time, it was the moment I subconsciously told myself “This is complete and utter nonsense (most likely I said something else like “bulls***) and I have had enough! I am meant for so much more in this life.” Quite frankly, we all are. Every single one of us deserves so much more than we allow.??

This was also the moment when the Universe heard me, loud and clear, and began setting things into motion that months later allowed me to step out of my corporate role to become a full-time life coach and mentor. Additionally, it gave me the beautiful opportunity to care for my mom who was in the last few months of her life. Two gifts I will always cherish.??

Just when you think life is happening to you, you learn that life is really happening for you. This can only be seen with an open mind and looking through a different lens at the world around us. Though it was a tough lesson for me at the time, I am and will forever be grateful for how things unfolded. Today, I help others shift their perspectives and grow into who they are meant to be.?

I share this experience with you all in the hopes you will look at your life through a new lens to see there are limitless possibilities in the world for you. Also, to give yourself and others grace before jumping into victimhood or blame over anything. We never know what’s going on in the life of someone else and when we open our hearts and eyes to the fact that it isn’t just about us; we’re humans and all in this together, we create a world of love, peace, and joy.?

If the Universe is telling you, it’s time for a shift, I am here to help. Schedule a discovery call with me today to see what is possible for you.??

Love and Light,?

Michele