Mistakes means you are trying your best
Kishore Shintre
#newdaynewchapter is a Blog narrative started on March 1, 2021 co-founded by Kishore Shintre & Sonia Bedi, to write a new chapter everyday for making "Life" and not just making a "living"
As Bob Dylan said “There’s no success like failure”. And I believe so. Everybody does mistakes. We are all trying to achieve something and failure is a natural part of trying. Mistakes are the best thing that can happen to you….because through them you learn, because you try harder next time, because you stop and listen , because you understand humility.. but you only do any of that , if you own your mistake …Sometimes they do not mean you are trying , you may make a mistake because you think you can get away without doing a job properly.. and you mistakenly miss a step that you should have taken, if you were trying….i.e., I have made many a mistake because I didn’t listen to what I was being told, hence I was not trying …but now I know I have to be attentive.. and I have learnt from my mistakes and grown from them. But sometimes they can mean you are trying and just need to learn differently, either way it’s all good.?
It all depends on the circumstances and how serious the mistake was. If you are the President and you accidentally press the wrong button and annihilate millions of people, it is a bit lame to say: “I was trying to get a nurse…” Generally, successes are better proof that you were trying than mistakes are. But, don’t dwell on mistakes. Analyze them so you won’t repeat them, then move on. You will make millions of mistakes in your life and they are all part of a growth path. Nevertheless, you’ll enjoy your life more if you work to minimize them.?
Let me put it this way: there are people who think that they don’t make mistakes. Even so, they are very much mistaken. Don’t worry about whether mistakes are a good or a bad thing, because you’re going to make them no matter what. We all just have to deal with them as they occur. No one, without exception, has any other choice. Mistakes are experiences you learn from. It’s not necessarily proof of anything, unless you’re taking a class and your teacher sees you’re making the effort to do your work the right way. If that’s the case, than yes, it’s thorough proof of your work ethic.
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We all make mistakes. We fall and we rise. We get broken and we form ourselves again. It’s all a part of life. From my experiences, I can say that making mistakes is very necessary in life. I made few mistakes in life that made me learn a lot. I made few wrong career choices. I made mistakes in my relations with family and friends. But they all made me learn a lot and I took lessons from them. It’s completely fine to make mistakes, whereas on contrary if you don’t make mistakes that means you are not trying anything new in life. It means you are not taking any risks, cause you make mistakes only when you do something new and take risks.
But don’t repeat the mistakes. If you make mistake once then it’s a mistake but if you make it more than once it’s your choice and no one can help you if your choices are wrong. It’s fine to make mistakes but not wrong choices. So folks, keep making mistakes and keep learning from them!! What is right and wrong ?? Who decides which is right , and which is wrong ?? The answer is you, your conscience!?
Since, people have their own perspective and perception towards anything. What is right to you, may be wrong to others and vice versa! The reason is, people have set their own boundaries for everything , when that thin line of their boundary is breached, they feel it's wrong! But one thing is for sure, we may not be answerable to anyone, but we , our conscience knows that , we are doing or done wrong! Because of our deeds, if someone is hurt physically or mentally, then that's wrong. Cheers!