Miserable and stuck is no way to live and work.
Arivee Vargas, J.D.
Author | Keynote Speaker | Executive coach helping lawyers & leaders to find more clarity, fulfillment and joy I ???Host - Humble Rising Podcast I ?? Former Big Lawyer & HR Leader
You’ve reached the job you worked so hard for—the one you've heard others might envy. On paper, you’ve made it. But lately, you dread Mondays. You've been asking yourself: Why am I even doing this? What is this all for?
You work tirelessly, sacrificing yourself for the job. You need sleep, but there are weeks you're only getting 5 hours each night. You want to work out, but you're tired and there's so much work to get done. You wake up to a never ending scroll of emails.
You worry what peers or partners might think if they can’t reach you immediately. So, you check your email constantly, always “on,” just in case.
You're unhappy, but you're also stuck, not sure what to even do about it. You wonder: Should I just leave now? I can't live like this.
But here’s the truth: You can get unstuck and completely redefine what success and achievement means— where your well-being is paramount and feeling fulfilled is a reality.
That's what one of my clients did. She felt consumed by guilt whenever she even thought about slowing down or taking care of herself. She had few boundaries and was attached to her email and her laptop. She thought her job demanded that level of sacrifice.
Through coaching, she realized:
Her worth is more than her work. She learned how to set boundaries without compromising her high standards or her professional relationships.
She could meet her needs and still excel by taking small steps over time to shift how she lived and worked. By prioritizing sleep, proper meals, and creating more rejuvenating and joyful moments for herself, she felt more focused and effective at work. She felt better about her life, and felt finally back in control.
She didn’t need to leave her job. She found ways to work differently, and realigned the way she worked with what was most important to her.
You have the power to make a similar shift even in the most fast-paced environments.
Here’s how to take the next step:
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Always rooting for you,
Arivee
P.S. Feel like you have no boundaries and no time for yourself? I have a boundary toolkit that will help you get started. You'll learn 3 easy-to-implement strategies to protect your time, energy and sanity. Grab it here.
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