Mindset Matters: Transforming Negativity into Success

I have spent a ton of my time as of late studying mindset. If you read my blog, you know its been my focus lately. In today's society, everything has become extremely negative, and I want to help my team, family, and others I meet become the absolute best they can be. My reading list and favorite podcasts are filled with valuable insights from authors and speakers who have helped me replace my own negativity with inner peace.

I listened to a podcast recently featuring Dr. Cindra Kamphoff, a Certified Mental Performance Consultant, and Allistair McCaw, a bestselling author on team culture, leadership, and mindset. One of the many great points they discussed was how high performers achieve success through mindset, discipline, and focus.

The best know what they want. They have a passion for their goals and a plan to get there. They know making a difference is something you choose to do and being disciplined is the fuel to get you there. I loved Dr. Kampoff’s quote, “you are not born a winner or loser, you are a chooser.” I firmly believe that our thoughts shape our reality, and what we consistently focus on manifests in our lives. As McCaw says, “you become your most consistent thoughts.”

The best know where they are going. The best work hard on learning, growing, and developing. Looking to get a little better each day. Knowing it’s a journey and knowing one of the most difficult people to lead is ourselves. They work hard at being self-aware and developing habits that move negative thoughts to positive. Regardless of their emotions, they show up every day, understanding that they can only control their energy, attitude, and effort, not external circumstances. They anticipate obstacles but know the challenge is worth it.

The best know why they are doing things. They understand the 'why' behind their actions. They are driven by a sense of purpose and the desire to impact others. Rarely are the most successful doing things solely for themselves. They want to help as many people as possible be successful. They intentionally surround themselves with people that get things done and are grateful for the opportunity to serve and make a difference.

The best know to ask the right people for help. They know it’s important to build a circle and network of really bright and smart people. People that challenge you, tell you truths and help you find your true self. This takes intentionality and consistency to spend time with and build trust with others. This group knows their network is their net worth and who they spend time with can help them improve. People that are going somewhere good are contagious and bring others with them.

I think the consistent theme of the insightful podcast, based on McCaw's book, 'Mindset is Your Superpower,' is high performers spend time focused on developing their mindset and that it is a skill that can be developed. You can train your mind to be happier and make positivity a habit. You can develop the skill of quickly removing your mind of negative thoughts. I loved the quote shared by Jim Rohn, “work harder on yourself than you do your job.”? Leading ourselves can be the toughest challenge, but it's also the most rewarding.

I hope you find value in these insights on mindset. Remember, investing in yourself and believing in your potential is the first step towards personal growth and success.