The messy wonderful reality of right now

What if …

Your life is exactly as it is supposed to be?

What if all of your relationships are exactly as they meant to be?

Or what if at some level you have created everything that you see each day?

I love questions.

I’m also trying to be more of an observer of my life.

When we seek to control it can feel like an uphill struggle but what if we surrender to our experiences?

So for me I’m curious about why certain people have come into my life and why others have left. Who do I want to spend time with, who don’t I see anymore?

Someone I like a lot messaged me today. We had a lovely exchange. I miss her. She misses me . However, I didn’t say we must meet up because for now I think our lives are busy and going in different directions.

It doesn’t mean that she won’t come back but for now I’m surrendering to the fact that we are on our own paths.

What interests me the most is who is in my life right now. Who am I having conversations with? Where am I spending my time?

With that curiosity it is my belief that I can live a life more in flow rather than seeking to control it.

When I thought I knew the plan, in that moment I probably felt safer but it turned out that plan was all based on a story I had created based on lies and untruths. Clearly on that basis it’s only time before it comes crashing down.

A different approach is required.

So I remain curious and present to my reality.

I’ll love that.

Can you love yours too?

Until next time,

Claire?????