Messages for Someone Going Through a Breakup
They say that breaking up is hard to do, and these words can help you get to a healthy place and put the past behind you. Moving on you are giving your brain positive messages that will help the healing process and get you back to a good-feeling place.
Beauty comes from a life well lived. If you’ve lived well, your smile lines are in the right places.
In the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.
The end of a relationship – breaking up with your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife – deserves just as much sympathy and support.
Breakups are so hard for those involved. Splitting up with the person you’ve loved is heartbreaking and it’s in the days, weeks and months after when they will need the support and love of friends and family the most.
But knowing what to say to someone going through a breakup is hard. Finding the words to offer them comfort and tell them it’s going to be alright isn’t easy.
What is the right thing to say?
How do you offer your sympathy and when is the best time?
So if you’re struggling with a sympathy message a breakup for someone going through a breakup then use the example messages below to help you to be there for them and give them the support they require.
After a break-up we often look back on their life and think of all they achieved. And even though we are sad at having lost them we can take comfort knowing that it was a life well lived.
Celebrating someone’s life is a good way to cope and deal with the pain their loss brings. Focusing on the positives and how well they lived their life can help to make their death seem less tragic.
It doesn’t stop the grief we feel but it can at least remind us of how great and valuable their life was, and the time we were blessed to have with them.
If you’re sending a sympathy card or perhaps giving a remembrances then including a life well lived quote is a good way to keep your words and thoughts positive.
Not how long, but how well you have lived is the main thing.
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Thank you?….Life built should not be a journey to friendship with the intention of lasting safely in a pretty and well built, but rather to skid in broadside in problems totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming ‘Wow! What a Ride!
At times like this there’s not a lot that words can do to help ease your pain and sense of break-up.
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And though it may be hard to believe right now, know that the pain will ease with time and you will look back at the memories of your dear one and smile and remember a life well lived and loved.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away. Beautiful memories we shared.
Wonderful words and sentiment, aren’t they?
Bantered around the Internet But have you ever stopped to think what that string of words actually means?
He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often, and loved much;
In the process of being a kinder friend, something amazing happened — I started to be kinder to myself and accept all of the things that made me different. I let myself laugh loudly, say ridiculous things, and express my real opinions, unafraid of looking foolish — I was fully myself, and as it turns out, that person was actually pretty awesome!?
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The freedom to be authentic in a friendship is vital for developing more meaningful relationships.
A deep friendship is one in which we feel seen and loved for exactly who we are. It’s when we feel safe enough to talk about what’s really on our minds and in our hearts — and when we trust that the things that make us quirky, unique, and different are the qualities our friend cherishes most about us.
I worked to build these kinds of deep friendships throughout my high school and college years, but I found myself really creating them in my 20s.
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It was the first time I had lived away from my family and wasn’t in school, and I knew I needed relationships that were real.
These friends helped me to become the person that I am today. I can look back on conversations with these friends about our values, our dreams, and our faith and know these are the friendships that shaped me.
I’m so very grateful for the ways my deep friendships have made a difference in my life.
When I was in my early 20s and working in event planning, I became friends with a writer. Our friendship grew over our mutual love of long walks and trying weird, hidden bars.
Over time, he took me to different literary events, introduced me to other writers, and really encouraged me to give writing a try.
I had never thought of myself as a writer, but if he thought I was good enough, then it was worth a shot! I began writing and eventually published a book.
And I know that if it hadn’t been for that friendship, for being vulnerable and sharing some of my personal writing pursuits, I would have never had the courage to write professionally.
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2 年Another reason why it’s important to have deep and real friendships is because they can actually make your relationships with your family and your partner stronger. This can take the pressure off of a romantic relationship, in which the expectations to be lover, confidant, best friend, and partner are already so high. I felt my eyes fill up with tears of frustration. Why couldn’t he talk through things with me like my best friend did? I left the apartment to take a walk. As I walked, I wondered what was missing from that interaction that I usually got from my best friend. Was it the back and forth conversation? The soothing, “Yes, I totally understand” affirmations? Or was it a feeling that this was going to be okay? By the end of the walk I realized that it was all of those things. And if I needed someone to listen to me like my best friend, maybe I should give that best friend a call, instead of expecting my fiancé to be my partner/best friend/roommate/family all rolled into one.?