Men – prioritize your health!
Thomas Schuler, M.D., F.A.C.S.
Chairman of the Board, National Spine Health Foundation | Retired from clinical practice at Virginia Spine Institute after 32 years in the field | Continuing to educate the public about advances in modern spine care.
Sheldon Buytenhuys, a 44-year-old father of three from Sterling, Virginia was a PGA professional and triathlete when a driver turned his life upside down by running a red light and slamming into his car. Suddenly Sheldon, who’d been able to run for hours, was experiencing terrible shoulder and back pain and numbness. Within four months he could barely walk. He discovered his pelvis had been fractured too and was increasingly compressing two discs in his spine.
“It was awful. Not only couldn’t I run or play golf – I couldn’t even lift my kids,” Sheldon says. “The pain got worse and worse every day to the point where one day I tried to walk around the block to go pick up my girls from the bus stop and I had to sit down halfway because I couldn't go any further. It was terrible.”
And yet – the first doctor he saw for help told him his only options were physical therapy and living with the pain. Sheldon couldn’t bear the thought of that and got a second opinion at the Virginia Spine Institute in Reston. When he came to see me, I knew right away I could help him and in November 2010, I performed a successful 2-level lumbar fusion on him.
Sheldon says he felt better immediately. “Pre-surgery I couldn’t even lift my right foot when doctors pushed on it and I’ll never forget – the first morning after my surgery, Dr. Schuler pushed on my foot and it didn’t stop me at all. I was able to lift my foot straight up in the air and it didn’t hurt at all. My wife was in tears. She was so happy and I was just so grateful,” Sheldon says.
The active father was back running in 3 weeks and went on to complete an Ironman Triathlon (a 2.4-mile swim, a 112-mile bicycle ride and a marathon.) More than ten years later, you’re likely to find him on his Peloton, playing golf, and keeping up with his busy girls.He continues to tell his story because he wants men to know they don’t have to be afraid of addressing their health – even if the problem is big and requires surgery.
Studies show men tend to have negative attitudes about going to the doctor, with one study finding nearly 2/3 (65%) of men avoid going to the doctor ‘as long as possible’, 72% say they’d rather do household chores like cleaning toilets than go to the doctor and 37% saying they withhold information from their doctors because they weren’t ready to face the truth of a potential diagnosis. Sheldon says he understands. He was scared to undergo surgery – but he also knew it was something he had to do to get back to the active life he loves.
“When something does happen, don't be stubborn. Big health problems aren’t going to magically fix themselves but they can and will get worse if you ignore them. Just face the problem head on, seek out help, follow the advice of those you trust and if you do have something major like a surgery, put in the work in recovery to get on the other side of the challenge,” Sheldon says.
“I spent six months in a really awful, painful place,” he continues. “But that day I had back surgery - that was basically the day I was given a new lease on life and honestly every day since, I wake up grateful for all the things I can do on a daily basis with my kids and family. I’m just so glad I got help, got that problem taken care of and got back to living the life I love.”
Dr. Thomas Schuler is a spine surgeon at the Virginia Spine Institute in Reston, VA. Learn more about VSI HERE.
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5 个月Thomas, thanks for sharing!