In Memory of the Queen Warrior

As we move into the Memorial Day Weekend here in the United States, a day remembering military service women and men who have died on the battlefield for their country, I would like to recognize Tina Turner.

The biggest battlefield in the world is the one in our marriages. The investment in time, energy, courageous emotions, dysfunctional life, unhealthy settling, disappointment squashing, sex avoiding, secret-keeping…all without the eight-week boot camp or any other preparation for the ugly within it.?

Marriage is the ultimate test of emotional intelligence. For all of the fairy tales of love and marriage no one tells you that if you don’t know yourself, love yourself and embrace all of yourself, you will struggle to be that for someone else. You are not prepared for the personal traumas you may not have shared with anyone before committing to a lifelong agreement to love another.?

Molestation, beatings, rape, verbal abuse, financial abuse, emotional abuse happen to us as children and we squash it and carry it everywhere with us for the rest of our lives.

For some perhaps, your childhood is perfect full of love and compassion and you are unaware that people exist who are the opposite.? The shock and surprise of that revelation in marriage is a lifelong horror, a trauma that you are embarrassed to share.?

If you are a rockstar, highly successful professional or political official it is even harder to reach out for help and yet these are the people who struggle the most in silence. Today I am recognizing and memorializing Tina Turner for being the evidence that you can be on top and turn it all around for the elevation of your soul and live well.

She gave every woman permission to transcend. She was a stand for not suffering in silence. She was a stand for utilizing trauma as a resource and transmuting suffering into the purest form of devotion…self-nurturing! She exemplified the essence of self-love and recreating yourself. She was completely aligned and replenished!?

Have you ever wondered what it feels like to be replenished????

You may have felt refreshed at the beach or heart happy being at a gathering with friends or family. But have you ever felt complete within yourself by yourself??

Have you invested the time and energy to mine for your joy within? Mining for your joy is being courageously in alignment with your heart, body and soul all at once.???

?? It? is tasting your food as you chew it slowly.?

?? Being in your body with your emotions as they are

?? Feeling yourself free as a child

There is a difference between being replenished physically vs being replenished in your being.?

Tina Turner was replenished in her entire being only and always.? Tina gave to us from her overflow of THAT! Let us revere her contribution and celebrate her life.? Let us implement the lessons she shared.? Let us know how to create for ourselves what she lived.??

She was a true Queen Warrior!

Join me on June 10th to know the distinction.

Cordelia Gaffar is The Ultimate-Joy Goddess. Normalizing great sex. People deeply desire to be loved and seek it in ways that are damaging to themselves and the collective consciousness. It's time to take a stand to the contrary. Her? process is called Replenish Me ? process and helps you to align your four minds (brain, heart, stomach and yoni (sacred space). Her clients say ,”she makes me feel valued, seen and heard”. She coaches executives, world leaders and change agents.?

As the CEO of Workout Around My Day Inc, she is a globally sought after speaker, workshop and movement facilitator, a four time best-selling author of eight books, a two time awarding podcast host for her personal podcast The Free to Be Show formally The Replenish Me Show and leads as well as co-host the Ultimate Coach podcast which is in the top 5% listened to podcast in the world. I am seeking referrals for speaking engagements with corporations.

Certified in Sports Nutrition, Holistic Healing Practitioner, Certified Mvt109 Facilitator, working on Authentic Tibetan Tantra Certificate and PhD in Holistic Sexual Healing

She has won multiple awards: Top National Influencer, Sexy Brilliant Leader, and inducted into the Global Library of Female Authors in 2020; the Brainz Global 500 Award of Influencers and Entrepreneurs for 2021, in 2022 won Podcast of the Year. She has also won and won BOOKS for PEACE 2022 award, CREA Award.

Her current accolades pale in comparison to her first two careers. She left her position as a CFO for a small IT firm in Washington DC nineteen years ago to homeschool her six children for 19 years. She has been featured on America Meditating Radio, British Muslim TV, South African radio 786, Soul Wealth Radio in Washington DC, and Fox News.

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