Meditate?

Meditate??

... are you also ready to see and hear all the noise.?

Transforming myself and my business, was not about ...

• being angry or lovely?
• the 10K monthly (as a ConSOULtant)
• being able to help my clients to improve their finances
• seeing myself winning
• seeing my clients winning?
• finding inner peace?
• growing a business or community?

I was feeling pain.?Not a physical pain.?

A deeper feeling. Like my life was amounting to nothing.?

Like constantly going?into the wrong direction.?

I was living a life that I did not want to live.

Leading me to frequently experience episodes of anger.

Looking back i realize it was meant to be.?

Because it forced me to re-examine my life.?

Yes, my desire, to find a way out, kept me "moving forward".

Yet nothing was clearly signaling me "this is the way!"

It was a multi-year journey that I couldn’t have done without (a lot) of support along the way.?

Meditation was good. Not the solution.?

Learning 'to see and to hear' was the 'answer', while meditating.?

I had to learn how to become meditative.?

How to ground myself.?

Meditation is not something to do.?

It's something you embody.

I wanted to work for something bigger than me.

I couldn't see the limitations or hear the noise.?

I was living a party-businesslife.?

Traveling. Going to festivals. Corporate events. Pool-parties. You name it ... I was there.?

And I also had a great team. I attracted those natural beauties. And we would go 'on the road' all the time.

But despite my corporate party-business lifestyle, something was eating me alive from inside.

I never felt worthy actually.?Nobody ever told me I was.

No graduation. No University. Never landing a high-paying job. Never breaking through on stage with my music. I was working for my?party-business life instead of something bigger than me.?

To put it simply??

It comes down to allowing myself to seeing my limitations and hearing all the noise.?

Noice isn't good or bad. It's there. It's popping up in your 'environment'. So, it's a PART of you, but it's not YOU.

I'm happy to share my stepstones of growing towards a 'greater me' with you.

Step 1 - Going from Misalignment to Alignment.

Stop seeking approval of others: partners, teachers, parents, friends, co-workers.?

You deserve to be 'ALL'.

Because there is a space within you, a source, that knows it all.

Don't leave this Source to find truth outside yourself.?

There is no?external answer for your fulfillment.

Like expensive clothes, a big house, holidays, cars, ...

When you allow (consciously) the noise around you to exist, not to be YOU, all this will change.?

Prioritize what you feel deep inside over wisdom from others.?

Step 2 - Finding Your Identity?

Do not isolated yourself.?

Do your thing because "YOU" want it. Not to feel safe.?

The path to "Freedom" = doing what you truly resonate with. And establishing a life you truly want to live.?

Remove the distractions that clutter your mind with noise, like Instagram, Youtube, Tik Tok and mindlessly scrolling.

Get inspired by people with presence. Their sense of presence will bring clarity to you. That's the power of being present.?

Presence is a tools to approach your internal turmoil.?

Craft an "escape plan".?To escape your old paradigm.?

Discover a new way to live…

Part 3 - Crafting your New Way of Life…

Take inventory of your actions, habits, patterns and biases. That's the first step to crafting a purpose-filled life.

You begin to see now.

A?first step on your "journey to freedom"

With this new knowledge comes power. The power to begin shaping each day a little better than the day before.

As you become conscious of your unconscious patterns, behaviors, tics, micro-aggressions, emotions, and biases,?

.. you slowly start to see how you are literally holding yourself back from a life filled with purpose.

If you want?to change your reality, It has to come from YOU.

Conclusion??

Most of my life I spent trying to DEFINE who 'I am' with?external markers of success.

Fame, follower count, revenue generated, "kill count", relationship status….

This was what was killing me inside. Every time I achieved a "marker of success" I would feel empty inside.?

And then start the process of seeking external "markers of success".?

In the hopes of finding lasting happiness.?

All the while feeling like I didn’t have enough, I wasn’t good enough, which caused immense suffering.

Now I finally stumbled INTO my real identity. It's like a huge bag of cement had finally lifted from my heart.

Because I stopped trying to define myself with external achievements.

I saw for the first time the unlimited possibility of my life.

Strangely, in letting go of trying to pin-down my Identity into a character, i achieved the most inner success as well as out worldly success then i had ever achieved in my entire life.

I got more successful with relationships, I stopped self-sabotaging my wins, started my first (successful) business, and for the first time EVER felt a feeling of PURPOSE.

Redefining Who You Are ...

Once we define our Identity, everything comes clear.

Once we gain confidence in WHO we are, we gain the ability to actively shape our future.

We don't depend on others. We can receive help, but we don’t rely on it.?

We become self-empowered...

I hope this letter gives you the insight to make an empowered decision in changing your life.

1 Small Decision is all it takes.

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Bart

www.businessbutpeace.com

+32 475 38 48 36?