Medicine of Miracles

Medicine of Miracles

Medicine of Miracles our family experienced this the last few weeks with Dorothy DeFalco, the world labeled her my ex-wife, after 40 years of marriage, 50 years ago we were married, we have both hated that word.

We were just two beautiful souls living with so much BS Belief Systems that caused us to live in FEAR VS LOVE

For many of our years, the love we truly have for one another has never died.

During post-divorce counseling is when my enlightenment started taking place. When the counselor Gloria Ahlman now deceased (finally a real one after 25 or more during our marriage) look at both of us and said “Neither of You have any idea of who you are and have been for 40 years” looked at me and shook her finger sternly, You, my friend have always been a master codependent and mixed with being a benevolent dictator. Then she looked at Dorothy shaking her finger sternly, you, my friend are an adult attic with prescription drugs and you have been all your life. And sadly that is why I had to counsel two of your children for drug addiction for years”. THANK YOU GLORIA AHLMAN

We both were abused children and never knew there was a little girl and little boy inside just repeating our first 7 years of childhood over and over as Dr. Bruce Lipton (study on YouTube) has proven scientifically.

Dorothy BS and wounded child led to prescription drug abuse all our life, sleeping a lot of life away.

My BS and wounded child led to fanatical Christianity and that is the answer to everything. That will fix it and I never knew what codependency (after 25 plus Christian Counselors over 40 years) after nothing worked and Life seemed to be happening to us vs for us, I looked outside me for answers and thought I needed out, it started with intentional affairs and then blame, and my codependency not allowing honesty, etc.

But God takes BS and the consequences, and the darkness and turns them into light

Spite everything, both of our souls are brighter today than any time in the last 50 years.

We have been through all the hells of life and all the many heavens. But for the first time in 50 years and 6 days of around the clock together, I KNOW WE ARE ONE SOUL NOT TO BE DIVIDED ON THIS EARTH and we will not be, We will rebuild our shack.

• 2012 Separation
• 2013 the divorce
• 2014 our 36-yr-old daughter Sandra died from H1N1
• 2012 - 2017 I lost the 5 years legal battle from the hedge fund Soft Bank for my life’s work during a hostile takeover of my 164 rental units.

After 7 years divorced, we tried another 2 years which did not work due to medical Marijuana abuse, some want to curse me but please curse legal drugs and prescriptions. Drugs/Legal has been an issue all our life. It took our chances twice, took the life of two brothers prematurely, 48 and 52, and 75% of all my childhood friends. ?

The six days together were the result of a Few weeks ago Dot was diagnosed with dementia and had serious fall, and other issues, had her days numbered.

After 6 days of one on one care from me as caretaker, I have her up and walking without wheel chair or walker, smiling, little dancing, some kissing, and 500 laughs of watching old photos.

After those six days around the clock with just her and me, I realized not only is she and I true “Soul Mates” but ONE SOUL.

Her dementia has attacked her brain, but can not touch her HEART and has only made my heart stronger, and all my life’s intentions PURE which are more precious than the 3 million dollars of net worth lost and all our other losses.

King David in the Jewish Scriptures in Psalms says. OH GOD, Your Lovingkindness is better than LIFE. Amen David I get it Now.

My children are fearful, understandably so with the BS Belief Systems they were raised with from me prior to life and circumstances and divine intelligence and divine integrity teach me as Dorothy and I having to walk through HELL the last 10 years

Heaven and a new BS Belief System starting for me based on a course I took in 2017 THE REAL COURSE (a 30-hour weekend course) all inner child work.

Then the REAL miracles started with the movie and book The Shack, and the follow-up 20 lessons that were 20 minutes each called rebuilding The Shack by William P Young.

A belief, philosophy, psychology, and theology that the Christianity and Church I was a part of and served faithfully for 35 years rejected me for wanting to share it and told me not to discuss it or I could leave.

After I went through this movie and the 20 lessons I told my then 7-year relationship/partner and engaged at one time that I think I could rebuild my Shack which hurt her emotionally but in her soul, she encouraged me and said do it Fred DeFalco, I will be here for you. Dorothy and I watched the movie and did the 20 lessons together, and decided we can do this. Even though it seems we failed again, God is just rebuilding our Shack differently then the true story of the author Paul Young.

After this experience I found a “Course In Miracles” and “The Healer’s Prayer” it is based on.

I proposed to Dorothy on our 50th-anniversary date September 24th while having coffee, and Dorothy said YES

Our wedding date will be on Thanksgiving Day this year.

Please pray for our family, there is a lot of confusion, doubts, fears, suspicion, half-truths, and opinions going on. Just like a lot of families, there is plenty of love BUT, but being raised with a belief system of 35 years that would deny a man’s experience with God “True Life Story of William P Young the author of The Shack and call it a false religious belief it will take more time for the healing to permeate our family.