Me Before Everyone - Priority!

Me before Everyone!

“The only way to make a spoilt machine work again is to break it down, work on its inner system and fix it again. Screw out the bolts of your life, examine and work on yourself, fix your life again and get going.”?

― Israelmore Ayivor

It is okay to distance yourself from toxicity and negativity. Not a sign of weakness, but a sign of self-enlightenment is prioritizing yourself before anyone else. Do you think you are selfish? “Selfish” is a relative term. When you are not sharing your food with the needy, yes, it signifies being selfish. On the other hand, when you stay away from people who torcher you to maintain your peace, it cannot be termed as being selfish. Instead, you can call it protecting yourself from noxiousness.?

Our life depends on how we balance the situation. When you fail, you do not feel like being in the spotlight. People around you may talk rubbish about you. In such cases, focusing on yourself and not staying away from negativity is recommended. Yes, there will be a few gem people who’ll strive hard to help you. Often, we fail because we have a lot of energy to give. But unfortunately, we do not know where to spend our energy, and we end up spending it on the wrong people or situations. Save some energy for yourself to fight uncomfortable situations. The longest relationship in your entire life is with yourself. IF you are happy, you’ll see the world and make people around you happy.?

Failure is not the end. View it as a new start. Be around positive people who help you climb the ladder. Stay away from poisonous people who keep on cutting you. “Me before everyone” always related best to the situation wherein you fail and blame others. Remember, when you fail, it is because of yourself. Maybe because of your lack of effort, lack of time management, over-trusting someone, blindly following the situation, or waiting for luck to work.?

Before judging everyone around you, do review yourself. Often, we end up concluding the names of toxic people around us. But what about you? Sometimes we become harmful to ourselves. Our thought process harms us by being toxic. So, it is essential to know your toxic traits. It might be overthinking, over-trusting, or depending on your personality. Usually, when we act weird, we blame our moods. We do not realize people around us must be going through some self-fight. The real and reel life is different. When we act weird with someone, we do not realize we not only hurt ourselves, but we end you hurting them as well. Even they might be having their issues.?

Keep reviewing your actions and behavior before you judge anyone else. This is one of the acts of self-love. Do not limit yourself. Know yourself – positives as well as negatives. Accept your flaws. Open your wings and fly high.?

“We must clean the lens of our hearts to see the state of our souls. However, the former is too dirty too often to know that the latter exists.”?

― Craig D. Lounsbrough