It may have more beautiful ending than your expectations

Expectations are nothing but the dreams, Dr. Abdul Kalam said "Dreams are not those which comes in sleep, those are which doesn't make you sleep". Expectations are something that defines what a person wants things likely to happen. Reality is nothing but how it works actually. It may be anything. They are like two faces of same coin. Everyone will have some expectations on their future regarding their growth of life, career and standard of living. But when it comes to reality there is only 50% chances likely to happen. It sometimes May also reverse according to some situations.

People not only have expectations for themselves but also for others around them. We all have expectations for our friends and family. For example, a parent can have very high expectations for his or her child. An employer can have an expectation about the performance of his employees. If one's expectations are fulfilled in the reality they will be the most happiest person in this world. If not they will have some feel lasting in life that they didn't get what they expected.

What to expect is in our hands and so do not expect much from anyone because after all they are not God who can fulfill your every expectation. Better is to accept reality and expect nothing or else to expect everything and then experience reality. Never expect anything too much, if you expect something want to be done exactly work hard for it. For one day it will comes into reality.

You expect your friend to always help you but reality is that sometimes she won't be there for you. You expect your children should obey everything but reality is that they do not obey each and everything. You expect forgiveness instead of asking forgiveness but on the other friend,your friend expects the same and the reality is that both get hurt by each other. You expect always that things must happen as you wish but the reality is that nothing is in your hands. You expect to win always but reality is that nothing is constant in life.You have to fail in order to learn. You get attached with someone and also expect same but reality is that you are only a choice for that person even when that person means the world to you.

When a girl start loving a boy amidst all obstacles and meeting him for few hours in a week and it will be exciting for both of them… and now they both think that even this few hours is exciting , why don't we get married… so that 24x7 it will be exciting… this is the expectation.., but after they get married, they are together for 24 hours… now the excitement goes … it starts boring…so the boy again will find for friends…and the argument starts.. some time both defend their parents… that leads to arguments… sometimes both of them think why we are married like…. This is reality that expectations can never be met now!

In life you must have expectancy in order to receive the things it is you dream of, life itself is also very unexpected. Life is whatever we make it, in a sense reality itself is bendable , we can have life work for us or work for life, literally! Expectation works together with life by putting your thought into the universe and applying yourself making your expectations a reality, if you don't give your ideas life they will not grow therefor you cannot expect which was never expected.