For Maximum Impact, Master The Balance Between Ego and Soul
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For Maximum Impact, Master The Balance Between Ego and Soul

There's no magic formula for making an impact in the world: let's start there.

Your Ego matters –> but don't tell it I said that: it might get cocky.

Your Ego is part of your inner wiring that makes it possible for your identity to shine through everything that you do in a way that ensures appropriate, real-time recognition for your efforts.

But your Soul is what really gets the gears of your Higher Self in motion, so that your higher mission on Earth can begin to unfold.

In other words...

Your impact depends on the relationship you have with both your Ego and your Soul.


Meet the Ego

You are not separate from your Ego in the same way that you are not separate from your eyes, your arms and your legs.

Your Ego is essential for forming your own personality during your lifetime, even if you are an Old Soul who has traveled the dimensions of the Universe for thousands of years.

Your story as Peter or Sarah matters, because it gives you background information as to your calling – your past holds the clues regarding what you're here to accomplish.

The challenges you once had to overcome alone or with great difficulties are now the reason you're channeling your energy and ideas to advance a particular aspect of society.

Your story as Peter or Sarah might never fully capture everything you're capable of, but it's the starting point of forming and declaring your purpose to the rest of your peers.

A healthy Ego ensures that you continue to advance your own story while being of contribution to society.

What happens if you don't have a healthy Ego?

  • Logic > Empathy: You can become a ruthless performer or a ruler who has poor emotional intelligence and little empathy for others due to a grandiose sense of Self (e.g. Peter the Cruel, Peter the Great Manipulator, Peter the Father of Narcissists)
  • Empathy > Logic: You can become a complete push-over who lacks boundaries and allows others to dictate your story on your behalf due to a deeply inherent lack wound (e.g. Sarah the Suck Up, Sarah the Great Pushover, Sarah the Mother of Martyrs)

Having a healthy Ego allows you to continue co-creating your own story while being of service to humanity and channeling more of your potential to do good in the world.


Meet the Soul

If we were meant to be Light Beings, who could see right through our Souls, we wouldn't have bodies and evolution would have eliminated the trivial needs that demand our constant attention in order for us to stay alive.

But here we are – mind, psyche, heart and soul – all bundled up in a physical body that is rather fragile and full of preferences, urges and information on a genetic level.

Yet without our Soul, we would be nothing. A body that lacks substance. A body that acts like a robot and follows orders to supply the needs of others. A body that continuously wonders: "Who am I?"

Our Soul is the quantum material that makes up who we are across time and space. This is what makes it far superior to the genetic information of our bodies and so difficult to interpret and understand.

Our Soul is everything that we are:

  • past, present and future timelines
  • all the failed attempts to stay alive in previous lifetimes
  • all the great successes we have experienced as our previous identities
  • all the pain and heartache of our encounters with Love
  • all the joy and abundance of being one with the Universe
  • our connection to Source where we originate from
  • our inherent love for Earth which is a source of Life like its children – the humans
  • our understanding of interconnectedness that extends beyond Earth
  • the pursuit of evolution, so that we can experience more of Life
  • the pursuit of remembrance, so that we can return back Home within

Our Soul holds the answers to all of our questions if we're brave enough to look within and begin to remember –?one question at a time.

When we integrate our Higher Self, we are simply making more space for our Soul to give us guidance as to how our past experiences (not limited to this lifetime) can help us achieve our goals today, so that we can leave a legacy for those who will arrive after us – our heirs.

When we lead with our Higher Self, we are leading from the future and grounding the vision for our success from the POV that it's already been achieved. What we're doing is actually aligning with our accomplished purpose through small consistent actions daily.

If the body contains genetic material that gives us insight to the DNA of our ancestors, so does the quantum material that we're all made of at the level of our Soul.


Self-Mastery

Self-mastery is about mastering the balance between Ego and Soul.

You're not here to give up on your human identity, since it's the blank canvas for your authentic storyline and personal evolution during your lifetime.

But you're also not here to let go of our Higher Self, since your impact connects to more than just your peers.

Your presence here and today has the power to affect the reality that the next generations will experience and the challenges they will have to go through, which is what makes connecting with your Soul such an exciting and transformational process!

You have the opportunity to close some negative, even damaging cycles for good and open some new positive ones that bring unity instead of division and spread love instead of hate.

Think about the impact you'd like to have across time and space and then refer back to your daily habits and the goals you've got on your vision board: are they a true match?

If not, what can you change about your actions today, so that you can think more like your Higher Self and increase your impact in the world?

Leave a comment with your boldest dreams for planet Earth – maybe we can make it happen together ???????


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