Maximize Your Potential: A Guide to Creating Your Personal Success Blueprint
Felecia Etienne, MBA, CHPC, EQ, PQ, NLP
Certified Executive Performance and Leadership & Life Coach | Mindset, Mental Fitness Expert, Amazon Best-Selling Author | Helping Driven Corporate Leaders, Business Owners & Ambitious High Achievers
Have you ever found yourself in the midst of life's unending demands, struggling to balance your career, personal growth , and well-being while also meeting societal expectations? Chasing after standards that aren't really yours can make you feel all alone and lost. Don't worry; you're definitely not alone in feeling this way. A lot of us, me included, have been through these same challenges. No matter who you are or where you're from, these struggles are universal.
A few years back, I was swamped trying to meet everyone's expectations. I felt like I was losing who I was, just floating around in a sea of what everyone else wanted. Then, everything flipped when I decided to do things my way and truly stick with it. It wasn’t a walk in the park, but wow, did things start looking up. My life improved significantly, and I found this new sense of purpose and happiness. I want you to feel this too. Stick around, and let me show you how to take back your life and do your own thing.
Exploring the Power of Personal Standards
In my latest blog, 'Crafting Your Personal Blueprint: Unlocking Success Through Standards, ' I dive into how setting personal standards can change the game in every part of your life. For example, one rule I live by is putting my health first. That means I always find time for regular workouts and eating healthy. Another standard is maintaining a positive mindset, which I achieve through daily affirmations and gratitude practices. I shared more of my standards as examples and practical steps to help you implement this powerful concept. If you haven't had the chance to read it yet, check it out HERE .
Why are Standards Important?
"Standards turn chaos into clarity, guiding you toward your purpose with unwavering confidence." Felecia Etienne, MBA, CHPC
Standards give you a clear pathway to purpose and impact, guiding you through life with consistency and clarity. I remember the frustration of feeling stuck, unable to hit my goals, constantly battling indecision. This is where standards come in—they transform the chaos into achievable steps.
Increase Your Confidence
Consistency breeds confidence. When you stick to your standards, you prove to yourself that you can be trusted. I used to struggle with self-doubt until I started setting and maintaining personal standards. Now, waking up every day knowing I’ll follow through on my commitments feels empowering.
Help You Hit Goals
Aligning your actions with your standards is like having a personal GPS guiding you toward success. But it's not just about setting any standards- it's about setting specific and challenging ones that push you to grow. When your standards are aligned with your goals, they light up your path and make your journey more focused and purposeful. Think about the frustration of falling short, then imagine the transformation: clear goals , consistent effort, and structured progress. This could be your reality when you align your standards with your goals.?
Simplify Decision-Making
"Each decision you make is either aligning with your standards or against them." Felecia Etienne, MBA, CHPC
Setting personal rules and standards isn't just about staying organized; it's your secret weapon against stress and mental overload. Imagine easily cutting through the noise of daily decisions, keeping your mind clear and focused on what truly matters. This isn't just about making life easier—it's about crafting a life that's rich, fulfilling, and aligned with your deepest values. By embracing clear standards , you're not just reducing decision fatigue; you're setting the stage for a more vibrant, meaningful, and fulfilling life.?
Allow For More Self-Control
Maintaining standards naturally fosters discipline, reducing the constant need for sheer willpower. Over time, this discipline evolves into stronger self-control. Visualize yourself effortlessly, making choices that align with your goals, leading to long-term success and satisfaction.
Attract More Amazing People Into Your Life
Living by your standards consistently attracts individuals who share your values , fostering a supportive and dynamic community around you.
The Simple Standards System
Now that you understand the power of personal standards, let's dive into how to create your own. Here are four steps to get started:
Step #1: Choose Your Standard Quadrants
Identify what truly matters to you and let those values drive your decisions. Start by identifying your four most important life areas—your standard quadrants—where you have full responsibility and influence.
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Step #2: Create Your Mission Statement for Each Quadrant
Your mission statement is a reflection of your core beliefs. Make it powerful, make it personal, make it yours. Craft 2-3 sentence mission statements for each quadrant to capture why each is important to you.
Step #3: Create 3 Standards under each Quadrant (for 12 Total Standards)
Let your standards guide you like a GPS through life's journey, especially when doubt and pressure try to steer you off course—list 2-3 standards for each quadrant, your non-negotiables, to guide every action and decision.
Step #4: Creating Stickiness: Keep Your Standards Alive
Living a purposeful and intentional life isn't just a one-and-done kind of deal—it's a journey that needs your ongoing love and attention. Think of it as building 'stickiness'—that ability to keep your standards sky-high, no matter what curveballs life throws at you. So, how do you make this magic happen? It's all about slipping small but mighty habits into your everyday routine. Start with daily check-ins to catch up on how you're doing, team up with a coach who's super supportive of your goals, keep visual reminders of your targets nearby, and don't forget to stay flexible—life throws curveballs, and your plan needs to be able to adapt. And don't forget to celebrate every single win, big or small. Celebrating is not only super fun; it's like rocket fuel for your motivation, keeping you pumped and on track to your dreams. Here's to staying true to your standards and building a life that makes you super proud!
Conclusion: Transform Your Life Through Personal Standards
Imagine confidently navigating your path, driven by your personal standards. By setting and maintaining these standards, you're not just planning for success—you’re crafting a life aligned with your true self. You have the potential to transform your life and achieve the success you've always dreamed of.
As you embark on this journey of personal growth, be kind to yourself and seek support from trusted individuals. Your standards can grow and evolve as you do. Keep revisiting and adjusting them daily, knowing each step brings you closer to living your best life.
Are you ready to transform your life?
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Ready to take the next step in your personal growth journey? Book your Clarity Call with me today. This call is an opportunity for us to discuss your current situation and goals and how setting personal standards can help you achieve them. It's a personalized session tailored to your needs, where you can get expert advice and guidance on setting and maintaining your personal standards. Don't miss out on this chance to accelerate your path to success.
Remember: Standards = Success! You've got this. Go out there and live your best life, one personal standard at a time.?
What standards will you set today to redefine your path? I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences. Let’s embark on this journey together to create a life filled with purpose and success. Share your insights in the comments below and let's start a conversation.
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- Explore your dreams, goals, and ambitions
- Gain clarity on obstacles holding you back
- Bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be
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To find out more about Felecia, you can visit her website at feleciaetienne.com .
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