Mastering Non-Verbal Cues in Negotiation

In negotiation, what isn’t said often speaks louder than words.

Non-verbal communication, the subtle language of body, gestures, facial expressions, and even silence can reveal intentions, establish rapport and create an edge in negotiation scenarios.

Mastering non-verbal cues can transform you into a perceptive negotiator, capable of both reading others and controlling how you’re perceived.

In this newsletter, we'll examine some practical scenarios and share actionable tips for mastering non-verbal cues in negotiation.

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1. Establish Confidence Through Body Language: In a supplier negotiation, when discussing pricing, lean slightly forward with open palms to signal collaboration. This encourages the other party to feel safe and share more information with you. Avoid crossing your arms, as it may appear defensive or unyielding, thus creating the opposite effect.

Actionable Tip: Practice power poses before negotiations to boost your confidence and calm any pre-meeting jitters.

2. Use Mirroring to Build Rapport: During a contract negotiation, if the other party leans back and crosses their legs, mirroring their posture (without overdoing it) can create a sense of connection, encouraging openness in discussions.

Actionable Tip: Mirror selectively and naturally. Avoid over-mirroring as it might come off as insincere.

3. Decode the Counterpart’s Signals: In a bidding scenario, if a procurement officer constantly glances at their watch, it may indicate impatience or distraction. This is your cue to adjust your approach, perhaps by summarizing your points succinctly.

Actionable Tip: Practice active observation. Focus on non-verbal cues to anticipate concerns or objections early.

4. Leverage Strategic Silence: When negotiating delivery timelines with a logistics provider, state your desired terms, then remain silent. The provider might inadvertently disclose areas of flexibility or constraints in their offer.

Actionable Tip: Use silence deliberately, especially after asking critical questions or making a significant offer.

5. Control Emotional Leakage: In a high-stakes supply chain discussion, avoid nervous habits like fidgeting or tapping a pen, as it might signal anxiety or a lack of confidence in your position.

Actionable Tip: Develop self-awareness by practicing negotiation scenarios with your team and receiving feedback on your non-verbal communication.

In conclusion, by mastering both your own non-verbal signals and interpreting those of your counterparts, you position yourself as a strategic, perceptive negotiator.

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