Master the fine Art of Ignoring People and Things Strategically

39 things you need to learn to ignore and develop a thick-skin for - that is neither bother about these yourself NOR let them bother you

1.     Ignore that feeling which tell you to fix and change others

2.     Ignore planning the revenge [especially if you are submissive] - it is more hurtful and become toxic for you in long run

3.     Ignore thinking about the remarks made by others over and over - which make you feel bad

4.     Ignore the drama, the tantrum, the show-off and the outburst - that others create

5.     Ignore people who only come to you for gossip

6.     Ignore people who only feed you with negative things

7.     Ignore anything that makes you feel worthless, as if you don't matter.

8.     Ignore the hatred spread by others

9.     Ignore the poison spewed by people 

10. Ignore the people who only criticize you for the purpose

11. Ignore unsolicited advice, opinions

12. Instead of getting angry and shouting at others especially your kids and partners - learn the art of distracting AND learn the art of making them feel that you are least bothered by their behaviors, outburst, tantrums

13. Ignore poisonous arguments

14. Ignore getting into argument for the sake of proving yourself right and other person wrong

15. Ignore those who laugh at your dreams

16. Ignore everything that makes you compromise with your values

17. Ignore avoid and get rid of all the toxic peoples from your life

18. Ignore news-channels

19. Ignore political, religious discussions - where opposing opinions are expressed

20. Ignore trying to show how much you know

21. Ignore distractions which takes your focus away from your highest of high-payoff activities

22. Ignore the urge to prove yourself to others

23. Ignore the feeling to please and satisfy everyone

24. Ignore what waste your time, money and efforts - and does not add value to yourself

25. Ignore those who don’t care for you

26. Ignore what other people ‘might’ think of you

27. Ignore the comparison on how lucky others are

28. Ignore feeling sorry for yourself

29. Ignore wallowing in your sorrows

30. Ignore sitting on your laurels

31. Ignore living a fake life - just to impress others

32. Ignore the soap operas that runs for years OR the celebrity shows

33. Ignore what you don’t have any control over

34. Ignore the failure and mistakes - after you have taken the lesson

35. Ignore the hurt by forgiving others - who wronged you

36. Ignore the hurtful remarks of others

37. Ignore the overthinking especially if you feel that it only you - others are talking

38. Ignore to internal voice to check on your ex’s social posts

39. Ignore begging for love and care and understanding if - you don’t get reciprocations

19 things what you should never ignore

1.     Your physical, Mental, emotional health and wellbeing

2.     Your priorities

3.     Your passions

4.     Your values

5.     Your loved ones

6.     People who care for you

7.     Those who contributed in your life

8.     People who stood by when you were going through tough times

9.     The lessons from your mistakes and failures

10. The blessings in your life

11. Self-care

12. Learning, unlearning and relearning

13. Reinventing yourself, rediscovering yourself and connecting with yourself

14. Your focus on growth of yourself and people connected with you

15. Your proactive embracing of change

16. Your moving-on after crisis

17. Your bad-habits and weaknesses those pull you down - for the purpose of working on them

18. Your etiquettes, manners and behaviors - to ensure that they are classy

19. Your values

In this article we will learn

-         15 Basics Clarifications about the Art of Ignoring and Developing the Right type of Thick-skin

-         Choosing the Correct Hard from 10 Areas - as Life is tough most of you would agree

-         39 things you need to learn to ignore and develop a thick-skin for - that is neither bother about these OR let them bother you

-         19 things what you should never ignore

-         68 ways to Learn and Master the art of ignoring and developing thick skin strategically

For full please read my blog "Master the powerful art of ignoring people and things" in Success Unlimited Mantra