MARRIAGE IS AND IS NOT

WE MAY WALK SEPARATE PATHS BUT WE ARE GOING IN THE SAME DIRECTION

Marriage binds two people together, not for the purpose of loosing one’s own path, but to walk together for each others purpose.? And yet, too many couples believe that the spouse is their personal genie, to fulfill all expectations by controlling that person to get those expectations met. It’s no wonder why half of marriages dissolve in anger and revenge. Mad at that person they once loved because that person did not make them happy. This is the ultimate level of control and loosing oneself in the union. We need a new mindset for marriage. One where both parties can celebrate their individual purpose while designing their union. This will take a gutsy wife, for it is the woman who hold the happiness of the union. What’s the saying? Happy Wife, Happy Life. There is truth to that. Over 70% of divorces are filed by women. Women are no longer afraid to be divorced and men, more than ever, need to understand what his wife needs from him. But knowing does not mean he knows how to do it. Both men and women are ill prepared for marriage today. They think that love conquers all. But if that were true marriage would be flourishing, for the first time in 100 years we are allowed to marry for love.

As a marriage recovery coach and a mentor to gutsy wives, my mission is to give the next generation an advantage by being happily married or happily divorced. If you need help designing your married life, to stop fighting and get back to that love you felt when you married then I can help. www.kimberlybrenner.com