Marriage GPS
Dr. Chavonne Perotte
Life+ Marriage Coach. I help you feel better, communicate well, get along, and create a healthy, happy marriage that lasts. | Faith-based coaching for couples and women. Learn more at DrChavonne.com
If you want to arrive at a new destination in your marriage, it's so helpful to have a roadmap.
THE DESTINATION:
The better communication - conversations where you feel heard, your thoughts and feeling matter, and your partner response with the appropriate understanding and empathy. Where the agreements are followed through on, and positive changes are sustained long-term.
The deeper connection - where you both DESIRE to spend time together, and actually enjoy yourselves doing so. Where it feels like you get to do life with your best friend who is your favorite person to be around.
The solid team work - where no one is carrying all the load and you genuinely look for ways to support each other. Where there's a healthy dynamic of give and take, and you both mutually feel like your needs and values are being met.
The passion and intimacy - where being affectionate is welcome and frequent. You feel cherished, attractive, and WANTED. You are not just platonic co-parents, but a intimately connected couple that's obviously in love.
THE ROADMAP
You and your spouse, both, being your best as partners to each other.
At some point your marriage DID feel like an absolute dream come true. And it's likely that you both were intentional - conscious to be kind, helpful, gracious, compassionate, forgiving, supportive, encouraging, present, affectionate, appreciative, flexible, open-minded, giving, and loving.
How often would you use these words to describe you and your spouse right now?
If you've veered off course, that's okay. Recognizing that neither one of you is showing up as your best is the first step in getting BACK on track, and BACK to the kind of relationship you want to have.
Being your best as partners to each other is the function of 6 Key Relational Health Principles.
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In my Masterclass: How to Create a Healthy, Happy Marriage that LASTS, I break each one of these down and help you assess where you both lie on these factors.
You'll walk away with a clear understanding of the exact next turn or pivot you both need to make in order to come together and make your marriage work really really well.
This is not about shaming and blaming each other.
It's not about dodging responsibility for your impact.
It's about the steps to take that get you to where you want to be.
We follow our GPS trusting that it's the way to our desired location.
The same is true of this Masterclass. It's the way to the healthy, happy marriage you want.
You can access the "hot off the press" replay right now by CLICKING HERE
Be prepared to take notes and to document (scale of 1-10) where you both fall on these 6 relationships skills. It will open your eyes to exactly where to go next.
My best,
Dr. Chavonne
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