Marriage GPS

Marriage GPS

If you want to arrive at a new destination in your marriage, it's so helpful to have a roadmap.


THE DESTINATION:

The better communication - conversations where you feel heard, your thoughts and feeling matter, and your partner response with the appropriate understanding and empathy. Where the agreements are followed through on, and positive changes are sustained long-term.

The deeper connection - where you both DESIRE to spend time together, and actually enjoy yourselves doing so. Where it feels like you get to do life with your best friend who is your favorite person to be around.

The solid team work - where no one is carrying all the load and you genuinely look for ways to support each other. Where there's a healthy dynamic of give and take, and you both mutually feel like your needs and values are being met.

The passion and intimacy - where being affectionate is welcome and frequent. You feel cherished, attractive, and WANTED. You are not just platonic co-parents, but a intimately connected couple that's obviously in love.


THE ROADMAP

You and your spouse, both, being your best as partners to each other.


At some point your marriage DID feel like an absolute dream come true. And it's likely that you both were intentional - conscious to be kind, helpful, gracious, compassionate, forgiving, supportive, encouraging, present, affectionate, appreciative, flexible, open-minded, giving, and loving.

How often would you use these words to describe you and your spouse right now?

If you've veered off course, that's okay. Recognizing that neither one of you is showing up as your best is the first step in getting BACK on track, and BACK to the kind of relationship you want to have.

Being your best as partners to each other is the function of 6 Key Relational Health Principles.

In my Masterclass: How to Create a Healthy, Happy Marriage that LASTS, I break each one of these down and help you assess where you both lie on these factors.

You'll walk away with a clear understanding of the exact next turn or pivot you both need to make in order to come together and make your marriage work really really well.

This is not about shaming and blaming each other.

It's not about dodging responsibility for your impact.

It's about the steps to take that get you to where you want to be.

We follow our GPS trusting that it's the way to our desired location.

The same is true of this Masterclass. It's the way to the healthy, happy marriage you want.


You can access the "hot off the press" replay right now by CLICKING HERE


Be prepared to take notes and to document (scale of 1-10) where you both fall on these 6 relationships skills. It will open your eyes to exactly where to go next.


My best,

Dr. Chavonne


Hasurungan Tobing

DNR-Discipline's No Reason. Senior Biology Teacher

4 周

Thank you for sharing. Dr.Chavonne Perotte? Great for your subscribed articles edition about a better marriage : "The Weekend Marriage Boost" "Marriage is like a chain of golden rings, beginning with a ray of light and ending with eternity." "A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers." - Robert Quillen

回复

要查看或添加评论,请登录

Dr. Chavonne Perotte的更多文章

  • Getting Your Spouse to Cherish You

    Getting Your Spouse to Cherish You

    Years ago I did an in person event with a group of women. As I was talking, I made the statement that all we really…

    2 条评论
  • Loving Yourself a Little More this Week

    Loving Yourself a Little More this Week

    This has been a week. I want to encourage you to take exquisite care of yourself.

  • 5 Questions that Move You Forward

    5 Questions that Move You Forward

    Many clients come to me because they feel stuck. Stuck in a marriage that is unhappy.

  • Break the Cycle of Frustration in Your Marriage

    Break the Cycle of Frustration in Your Marriage

    If your weekend so far has included frustrations and anger towards a partner who can be so inconsiderate and…

  • Solving the Right Problems in Your Marriage

    Solving the Right Problems in Your Marriage

    Yesterday, we had a smoke detector go low on battery. When I heard the first loud and annoying chirps I immediately…

    2 条评论
  • Emotional Reactivity

    Emotional Reactivity

    The biggest thing keeping couples from communicating well and connecting deeply is how they react to and handle their…

    1 条评论
  • What You Don't About Marriage (But need to)

    What You Don't About Marriage (But need to)

    The saying, "hindsight is 20/20" is so common because it's true. How many times have you found yourself becoming aware…

  • Ambivalence in Your Marriage

    Ambivalence in Your Marriage

    The uncertainty. The one foot in, one foot out.

  • What to do when your partner...

    What to do when your partner...

    One of the most common questions I get asked is "what do you do when your partner..

  • Self-leadership in Your Marriage

    Self-leadership in Your Marriage

    Believe it or not, having a healthy, happy marriage requires a great degree of self leadership. By that I mean, your…

    1 条评论

社区洞察

其他会员也浏览了