Marks of a Gentleman

Having the qualities of a gentleman doesn’t necessarily have to be all complicated. Every man can all acquire the marks of a gentlemen if they know the notions by heart and act as if it’s their second nature. Of course, there’s a long list of traits one should possess to be considered chivalrous and honorable in the eyes of the mass but here we would like to break it down to the most fundamental points you should start from. 

Dress Well

Dressing your best in every occasion make you look and feel sharp. It’s good to know the dress code and make sure not to overdress or underdress. When in doubt, always overdress because the worst case scenario is you’re the best dressed person in the scene and that at least shows the host that you actually care, respect and want to be present at their event. 

We recommend you wear a sports jacket for an event that is not too formal and if it’s going to be an outdoor event, you would want to keep your clothes light but at the same time smart and dapper. For formal black-tie event, you should go for a full tuxedo to commemorate the special occasion. Going for a full-lined suit is also a good option for formal wear for its weight and firmness that is ensured to lay nicely over the contours of the body. 

Some gentlemen also favor tailored shirt that fits their body perfectly for a neater look. For a little change, if you already have your go-to shirt in your closet, you could pair your shirt with different colored bow tie. Each color for bow ties can make a huge difference to the overall look since it can complement well with different colored suits. Different colors also have different meaning. For example, red is known for its powerful presence radiating authority and leadership while blue reminds people of the sky and the ocean which gives a calming effect. 

Accessories can be more than just ties. You can add beautiful details to your overall look with new cufflinks. There is a wide range of designs for cufflinks that help fasten your shirt cuffs closed thus makes you look neat and sharp. If you were to choose only one type of cufflink, we recommend the Bullet Back Cufflink which highly popular. Another type is the stud design which is more secure. 

Good Manners and Posture

This point is a no-brainer, but it is often overlooked. Be sure to have your shoulders back and aligned and keep your chest perpendicular to the ground. For greetings, mastering a good handshake is a must. Not only does it show strong leadership qualities but it also shines out confidence and the ability to be comfortable in one’s own skin. It is also equally important to make “just the right” amount of eye contact as it produces a feeling of mutual likability and trustworthiness. 

Apart from the clothes you wear, body language will also help boost a strong sense of presence and status when you walk into a room. 

Good Hygiene 

Having a good hygiene is not only making sure you’re showering or brushing your teeth, but it also means you’re being aware that your self presentation matters and affect the people surrounding you. A true gentleman should not be offensive in sight nor smell to his companions. A gentleman should always be clean and presentable. Groom your hair, clip your fingernails, floss your teeth and wash your clothes. Before leaving the house, choose the right scent that you want to represent you but be careful not to overdo it. Putting on too much cologne is never the solution. Remember that less is more, and the fewer the spritzes the better.  

Thankfully, being a contemporary gentleman doesn’t require one to strictly follow a set of specific rules and etiquette of the past. However, the marks of a gentleman today is more emphasized on making smart life choices that are considerate of oneself and others. This is as easy as paying attention and putting necessary effort to view things realistically and reasonably. Never forget to be considerate and attentive.

Bobby Gulati

www.rajasfashions.com