Managing Weaknesses
Murray Guest
Strengths-based partnerships & solutions to unlock potential, develop inspired leaders and engaged team culture.
Gallup defines weakness as “anything that gets in the way of your success. In a strengths-based approach, a weakness is a shortage or misapplication of talent, skill or knowledge that causes problems for you or others”. This may be your dominant CliftonStrengths? Themes over-dialled or unconsciously applied in different situations. It may also be one of your lesser talents (Themes at the bottom of your profile) that don’t come naturally to you.
For example, at times my Communication? Theme (no. 4) is so keen to add to the conversation, the order of my words isn’t quite right as they come out my mouth! Context? for me is number 33 and at times I can skip or miss providing the why/purpose/bigger picture.
Here are 7 tips to help you manage your weaknesses, whilst focussing on the application of your strengths, to be your best.
Coaching – A coach can help you explore options that work best for you to manage your weaknesses. A coach won’t have the actions for you, however a good coach will encourage, challenge and work with you to identify strategies that work best for you.
Mentoring – A mentor working in the same industry or profession as you could give you some advice or guidance to help you navigate your work whilst managing your strengths so they don’t inhibit your goals.
Leveraging – If one of your team-mates or peers is dominant in a Theme that you aren’t, ask them for their perspective on a situation through a lens of their Strengths. For example, if your Strategic? is low and theirs is high, ask “What’s a way forward you could see in this situation?”
Collaboration – Look to partner with your peers on projects where you have complimenting talents and strengths. For example, my wife and I organise a conference where my Responsibility? and Communication? partners with her Activator? and Connectedness?. I bring the focus on doing what we say and talking through our challenges and she brings the action and the bigger picture.
Delegation – Explore options to delegate a task, where the task aligns better to someone’s talents and strengths. Example tasks could be presenting at a meeting or developing a process.
Systemising – Implementing a system to support you in those areas that you aren’t as strong in. For example, a team low in Strategic thinking themes implemented a process to ensure Strategy was a more deliberate focus in their meetings. Another example is Focus ? is low for me, so I need to set myself little rewards when working, (i.e. don’t get my coffee until the work is done!)
Focus – You have access to all 34 CliftonStrengths? Themes, sometimes you just need to dig deep and focus!
It all starts with awareness, to identify potential weaknesses, ask yourself…
- Does this theme ever undermine my success?
- Have I ever received negative or constructive feedback related to this theme?
- Does my role require me to use this theme, but I feel drained when I do?
- How are you showing up? What trips you up? What gets in the way of achieving your goals?
Murray Guest is one of Australia’s leading Strengths coaches, helping over 2,000 people unlock and apply their strengths to achieve their professional and personal goals. He combines his experiences from 20 years in corporate roles in manufacturing and learning and development to build teams and inspire leaders. As a Gallup certified Strengths coach, he partners with leaders to build strengths-based cultures, where the benefits of a strengths-based approach are realised. Murray is passionate about people getting to do what they do best every day and have conversations that matter. He loves mountain biking too! Find out more at www.inspiremybusiness.com
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I coach business owners, coaches and individuals to grow personally & professionally | Author of the FISH series (fulfilment, inspiration, success, happiness) | Founder - Expansive.Love | Heart-Centred & Strengths-Based
4 年Terrific summary Murray! Many thanks!
? Leadership Coaching ? Facilitation ? Author of Team Spirit: The Power of Purposeful Gatherings
4 年Managing your weaknesses is so powerful. Don't focus on them, but building your awareness of 'what you don't have' and discovering powerful partnerships and being aware of the stuff you're "lens" does not bring to bear so you can either lean on your strengths to bring that same outcome (the lesser strength would normally bring) or to rely on others to help you bring this to the fore via powerful partnerships. Many of my clients automatically (at first) fixate on 'what they don't have' (weakness) and I coach them to understand the self awareness around this and instead to focus on their dominant talents and build on these. It's amazing what self awarenss brings. Also....i love the conversations around the "dark side" (balconies) of dominant strengths and how to manage these- this is far more fruitful work i find than managing weakness areas
Leadership & Strengths-Based Development | Certified Coach | Accredited Coach Supervisor | Organisation and Relationship Systems Coaching (ORSC)
4 年Great share Murray Guest. I work through frustration triggers with clients to help them identify and observe the ones that routinely show up for them and connect them back to their strengths. What was their strength(s) expecting in the situation or from the other person that they didn't get? What were they expecting from themselves? They can begin to see that when the needs of their strengths aren't being met in a particular situation it can trigger it to show up as a weakness, which in my experience is where the majority of them tend to originate from. The other place is when they are dealing with someone so very different to them it feels frustrating because they can't see what the other person does - often the perfect person to look to for a complementary partnership. Helping the client to step into curiosity and what alternative behaviours might look like and what others strengths they have in their toolkit to apply to the situation get better outcomes.
use your STRENGTHS at work + home | Virtual Coach + Facilitator | StrengthsFinder (CliftonStrengths)
4 年Systems and partnerships!
Strengths-based partnerships & solutions to unlock potential, develop inspired leaders and engaged team culture.
4 年Charlotte Blair Ken Barr Jr Lisa Cummings Genevieve James Sarah Good Christopher Miller ?? Nicole Seichter ?? TyAnn Osborn Leah Keogh Doug Bacon Andrew Sloan Becky Hammond Kerry Dover Antonia Milkop Brandon Miller Heidi Convery, Flourish LLC I'd love to know what strategies have worked for you and your clients to manage weaknesses?