Managing Stress and Emotions through Conscious Living
Adele Hartland
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Welcome to the Second Edition of The Conscious Living Leadership Journal!
I had thought I launched this a few weeks back with the first edition which was an article around World Values Day, but turns out in my excitement I didn’t quite get it right and link the article to the newsletter, so let’s call the first edition a “warm-up” and you can catch up here if you missed it.
The second edition of The Conscious Living Leadership Journal is perfectly timed for International Stress Awareness Week. This year’s theme is emotional management—a crucial skill for leaders, particularly in today’s high-pressure environments where stress is at an all-time high.
Understanding Emotional Management in the Context of Stress
Stress often triggers intense emotions—frustration, anxiety, or overwhelm—that, if unmanaged, can cloud judgment and strain relationships. For leaders, unmanaged emotions can impact team dynamics, decision-making, and overall well-being. Emotional management isn’t about suppressing these feelings but understanding and directing them in constructive ways.
Why Emotional Management Matters
Our emotions shape our reactions to stressful situations and can either fuel resilience or lead to burnout. Studies show that leaders who practice emotional management experience greater clarity and relational harmony, which positively impacts both personal and team performance. Emotions, when consciously managed, become powerful allies in stress resilience.
Why Is Stress Management Important?
Well other than the fact that is it crippling our society and it doesn’t have to be, we have stats that show that 74% of people are struggling to cope with daily stress and 61% reporting anxiety due to it, makes stress management vital. For leaders and teams, the impact of unmanaged stress extends beyond individuals. Burnout, a frequent result of sustained stress, is a primary driver of staff turnover and declining team morale. Alarming statistics show that 32% of people experience suicidal thoughts related to stress, underscoring the need for proactive emotional management, both personally and professionally.
Most Common Causes of Stress
International Stress Awareness Week serves as a reminder that these stressors impact us all, and finding effective management techniques isn’t just helpful—it’s essential for a healthy, sustainable workplace and lifestyle.
How to Manage Emotions and Stress Through Conscious Living
Awareness: Recognising Stress Triggers and Emotional Patterns
Managing stress begins with Awareness—the ability to recognise the specific triggers and situations that activate stress responses. Stress activates the body’s fight-flight-freeze-fawn reactions, often based on learned responses from early experiences. Recognising which situations trigger intense emotions gives us a chance to manage them consciously rather than letting them dictate our behaviour.
Actionable Insight: This week, take note of the situations that provoke stress and heightened emotions. Is it work deadlines, certain interactions, or self-imposed pressures? Where does the pressure to succeed come from and why are we so concerned about what people think of us? Identifying patterns or limiting beliefs that may be getting in your way allows you to pause, reflect, heal when necessary, and ultimately be able to respond with clarity.
Acknowledgement: Accepting Stress as Part of the Human Experience
Awareness is only the first step; Acknowledgement is equally critical. Too often, leaders and professionals feel pressured to suppress stress, associating it with weakness. However, acknowledging stress without judgment shifts us from resistance to acceptance, creating space for healthier responses.
Action Insight: When stress arises, pause to acknowledge it rather than pushing it aside. Take a deep breath and remind yourself that it’s okay to feel stress—it’s part of the human experience. And then ask yourself what needs to change? Maybe you stay up late catching up on your favourite show because it’s your time – the only time you get to yourself without demands and distractions…. however, you wake up tired and it starts all over again. It’s important to understand that for us take back ‘control’, we have to take radical personal responsibility. If something needs to give, its about you recognising what needs to change – do you need to set healthier boundaries?
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Practical Techniques for Emotional Management
While awareness and acknowledgement form the foundation, effective stress management requires practical, actionable techniques. Here are three tools to help start taking control of your emotional responses:
Get Started: Access my free “Chaos to Coherence” meditation in the Your Business magazine here (p. 230-231). It’s a quick and powerful way to regain balance and clarity during stressful moments. Scan the QR code to get your download.
2. Life Potential Scorecard As human beings, we’re beautifully complex—an intricate blend of body, mind, and soul. Emotional stress often arises when there’s misalignment between our thoughts, actions, values, and beliefs.
The Quality Mind Life Potential Scorecard is designed to provide a clear snapshot of where you currently stand, highlighting areas that may be contributing to stress, anxiety, and overwhelm.
This tool helps you assess your alignment across key areas of life, offering insights into the next steps to bring balance and resilience. By understanding where your attention is needed most, you can make intentional choices to reduce stress and create lasting alignment with your true self.
Try it: Complete your free Life Potential Scorecard here to gain clarity on areas that may need attention, helping you make intentional choices that reduce stress and enhance resilience.
3. Emotional Intelligence (EIQ) for Leadership Developing emotional intelligence is essential for managing stress effectively, particularly in leadership. EIQ involves recognising and regulating emotions in yourself and others, promoting emotional awareness, empathy, and balanced reactions. Leaders who cultivate EIQ not only reduce their own stress but also create a calmer, more supportive environment for their teams. A study by Berkeley found ti was four times more powerful than IQ. Sadly over the years whilst IQ scores have increased, EIQ Scores have fallen……You can read more about EIQ here
Actionable Insight: Reflect on how you react in high-pressure situations. Are you able to identify your emotions and respond constructively? Consider setting aside time to practice mindfulness or use a daily reflection journal to track your emotional responses and develop greater self-awareness.
Or get in touch to find out more about our EIQ assessments.
Looking Ahead: Breaking Through Limiting Beliefs in 2025
As we moved towards wrapping up 2024 and look ahead to 2025, what better time to reflect on the stories we tell ourselves—the beliefs that either drive us forward or hold us back. In next month’s edition, we’ll explore limiting beliefs and how they shape our journey. I’ll share my personal journey of confronting the belief that I "wasn’t good enough" and provide practical steps to identify, challenge, and reframe your own limiting beliefs.
Let’s start 2025 with a mindset open to possibility, growth, and conscious choice. Stay tuned!
Closing Thoughts: Leading with Emotional Clarity, Living with Resilience
Stress is unavoidable, however by building awareness, acknowledging our emotions, and using practical techniques, we can transform stress into a tool for growth. As leaders, managing our emotions openly and consciously sets a powerful example for those around us and fosters a society where well-being is prioritised.
Let’s make International Stress Awareness Week a starting point for long-term resilience and well-being, empowering us to lead with compassion, clarity, and strength.
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