The Male Pivot - COVID
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The Male Pivot - COVID

It is plain to see 
The male pivot is needed 
For you, COVID remain an unsolved mystery.
Which direction will you go; 
being so uncertain, no one knows? 
Governments, researchers, and scientists say they do.
Yet turning on a dime, folks are not sure who you'll next pursue. 
You've wiped away incomes, businesses, and unstable jobs. 
Leaving people depressed, diseased, with deadly sobs.  
In all that is unsteady in your wake, 
The male pivot is critical to provide, protect, and navigate
Before its too late.

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Author’s Bio

Karen Bontrager helps 16-24-year-old men, and fellas, 25+ stuck there due to complex trauma, make permanent shifts in their behavior from merely surviving in life to thriving through transparent coaching/counseling in one-on-one conversations and in group work, and through topic sensitive trauma-informed workshops in a program called, “From Crisis to Courage.” With this ontological approach, I partner with my clients to discover their essence, (aka highest and best self) by powerfully reflecting and listening to them. My clients quickly learn how to generate self-awareness and to voice their own relationship needs in a clear, constructive way by learning key coaching techniques/evidenced based counseling approaches/tools to work past their traumatic events and addictions to move forward. The clients are then equipped to develop healthy relationships with key relationships: parents/siblings/friends, and with intimate dating partners because they have learned how to proactively use their voice.

She does a weekly Relationships Matter Monday LI article/poem/commentary for 16-24-year-old men and fellas, 25+, stuck there due to trauma, is a frequent contributor here, and has a bi-monthly podcast called Crisis to Courage to give gentlemen an honorable platform for learning how to use their voices in a way which gets respected, instead of turning to the old standbys: anger, isolation, and numbing behavior, so they can be the men they were made, formed, and created to be.

Crisis to Courage Podcast for Men Links below:

https://www.buzzsprout.com/1130105/listings

https://open.spotify.com/show/0hBtQMFu6eOoHAJBZVRgiQ

https://podcasts.google.com/?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5idXp6c3Byb3V0LmNvbS8xMTMwMTA1LnJzcw==

https://podcastaddict.com/podcast/3017583

https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/crisis-to-courage-podcast-a-pl-1258925

https://www.deezer.com/us/show/1372142

https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/crisis-to-courage-podcast-a-platform-for-udrRN3OmV9o/

Are you a man, 16-24, or more mature, 25+ which feels stuck mentally, and is not able to move forward due to a traumatic past, which shows up as anger, isolation, or various numbing behaviors, and needs support? Or, do you feel something gets in the way emotionally from you loving self, others, or having the life of your dreams, but are not sure what? Please DM me on Linked In for an opportunity to talk.  


Joseph DiRoma, NCC

Operations Leadership | Internet Marketing | Ontological Coach

4 年

Really strong here Karen Bontrager ?? Wishing you a wonderful Thanksgiving Holiday!!

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Kishore Ramkrishna Shintre

For our esteemed clients in IT sector, we are currently hiring extra ordinary talent: Java Spring Boot Microservices Developer, Pega CDH Decisioning Architect, Adobe Campaign Manager for Bangaluru /Chennai locations

4 年

Dear Sissy Coral, beautifully worded the pandemic situation, however we all need to be positive and wait for the concerted efforts to continue to contain the virus till the vaccine is available to entire humanity. Cheers to humanity!

Karen Bontrager

Founder Crisis to Courage for Men I Podcast | 16-24 | ★ Money & Thought Leader | TBRI Trauma Clinician | LMHCA Therapist | ACC Trauma Coach | No Fear in Love Race President | Coaching | Scholar | Fierce Men’s Advocate

4 年

Kokila Lane, I deeply appreciate ALL your kindness and support regarding #crisistocourage4men. As a woman, you really understand the importance of it. Thank you, very much. - Our fellas do "dirty work," as well as make other significant contributions to society, but do not get any recognition, or even worse, are demeaned/lumped together with all bad men, which is causing a virtually ignored pandemic. - Therefore, it is a blessing to be having different conversations here, which hopefully gives hurting traumatized fellas hope. #crisistocourage

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Elvis Galesi

Sabbatical - working on my next painting at Life

4 年

We should not be identified by what we have or had, what was and what is now, but only to persevere in honor of this gift we call life.

Karen Bontrager

Founder Crisis to Courage for Men I Podcast | 16-24 | ★ Money & Thought Leader | TBRI Trauma Clinician | LMHCA Therapist | ACC Trauma Coach | No Fear in Love Race President | Coaching | Scholar | Fierce Men’s Advocate

4 年

In all that is unsteady in your wake,? The male pivot is critical to provide, protect, and navigate Before its too late.

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