Making yourself accountable to Your “Self”

You wish To achieve something, some position, some level of satisfaction, you start for that and work for some days and then you start getting bored and you leave it, and in a few days you fall into the guilt of not working for what you desired to be, This is the Guilt trap all of us, each and every human have already experienced, is experiencing or is on the way to experience.

I myself have experienced this, so hard that I left all the good things and passed my days binge watching web series wasting all my time and energy that I could have used for my benefit.

So, now question is how to get out of this trap, if I tell about the real world, it’s a constant fight to stay out of this trap, you have to choose the right things constantly (You have to prefer a Bitter Gourd over a Cheese Burger to stay healthy).

Let me list some of the ways that help me stay away from the trap.

1.????? Documenting your progress – First of all progress is not reaching from 0 to 1 or 2 to 10 or blab blab la. It’s about showing up constantly, some days less some days more, but showing up. And document every day, before starting what you wish to do today specifically, and when you finish, again check on what you planned for and what you could do, what is next, what was not possible to do, why did that happen, and what you took away from day’s work.

2.????? Do not fill your Plate in Single go – Your desires play a vital part in what you achieve in life, but at same time you also need to tame your desires, else they will make you run every direction except the right one. Consider what you wish in next 10 years, in next 5 years, in next 1 year, in next 1 Month, in next 1 day, and choose the top 3 of your desires to become reality. Yeah, it’s hard, I can see the tense forehead of yours but this is worth it. Instead of working on everything that life throws over you, you can actually dodge some, and catch the ones which “You” wish to make part of your life. How you eat at a Buffet Dinner, You go through the stalls one by one choose what you wish to eat, and then one by one enjoy each dish, no need to fill the plate at once, Life is enough long to do things one after the another. But too short to sort out things you jumbled because of your greed.

3.????? Have Patience – Legacy is not created in one day – You need to be Patient, and instant bolt of energy make you for 3-4 hours straight on one day, and next couple of days you are so tired and exhausted that you miss to keep the streak going. Instead you break down what you wish to do in simple parts, and do that for next 7 days consistently daily for just 30 minutes a day, you are not only able to save your energy but also able to perform better, you have to practice patience, in the journey, Remember it is not a Sprint to be completed as fast as you can, but a Marathon long you go better is the result, consistency and patience are keys you should never loose.

4.????? Communicate – Get help from friends and family – It is really easy to believe that people around us do not understand our goals and manifestations, and they are really not supposed to know that by themselves until you share that. You help them understand what you desire to be in the future, only than they could be able to help you. Each of us is on a different journey, but the pathways of all intersect at some point(s) where 2 or more people can either just collide and bounce back, or boost up with a shared energy that was created by the inclusiveness. This would be possible only if we let our imposters lay back and share our thoughts with people who believe in us.

5.????? Read – Books teach you well – The 1st best way to learn new stuff is by doing it yourself, and the 2nd best way is reading, whatever we are going through now, whatever we feel someone at some moment in history have already been through that, have felt the same way like you, and what best they did was not bragged about it on social media, but documented it well on paper, and today we call them Spiritual, Literature, self-help books may be I missed some more categories but the spotlight is “Books”. Read whatever genre you like there are thought provoking ideas in all types, some less, some more. What may take you a whole life to understand you can create a foundation on that learning with a book, the cheapest source of understanding life.

6.????? Imbibe before you share – Its really easy to preach, but hard to make a practice, some of the readers may or may not be thinking, is this guy doing all what he is telling himself, or just preaching things here, the true answer is I am doing this all, may be not that perfectly, I fail keep record of my work, I fail to move one barrel at a time I really get flushed at times due to impatience crawling in I fail to have a heart to heart chat with people who matter I fail to read a book consciously I even fail to do it myself before I teach it to someone else But I do look upon the 6 sunny sides as soon I have to find my way back, it about bouncing back as soon you hit that rock bottom, we are all work in progress, when our work will be over we will die, leaving this land for the next generation, but until then make your work honored, Love what you do and Do what you Love.