Making the right point
Dr. Roger Federer’s commencement speech at Dartmouth College is lovely. I particularly liked the point he made about winning the right points
I often entertain the idea of writing a book
Linking this idea to what Roger said about not all points being equal, the impact and longevity of a relationship are not always about how much time one has with a person. It’s about how that person has touched my life. Winning in the relationship game
Sometimes the people we want to hold on to are no longer with us, and that chapter is over, yet they continue to be central to the story. In other cases, they played just a small part and you let them remain a chapter or two, that is not central to the plot, but adds colour to the story.
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As they say in tennis ‘love all’ – it’s your story, you get to decide which chapters matter more than others. Make the right choices
The stories we tell ourselves about our relationships keep them alive (or not). The good news is we get to tell the story. Is it a happy one or a sad one? What is the moral? Has it ended or are there more chapters to add? As Roger reminded the graduating class, some points matter more than others. The same holds true for relationships. Focus on the important relationships
P.S – If you have not watched the full speech (its 25 minutes) I highly recommend it. I also love the way he talks about graduating from tennis in 2022 and not retiring. He too, like many others in the world is trying to figure out his ‘What next?’.
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