Make sure the people who bet against you LOSE!

I was 55 years old when I realized that not everyone is on your team. Growing up as the child of two pastors, my mother would always quote the scripture, To the pure, all things are pure. I understood that life would have its struggles, but I never imagined those struggles would come from people I loved. I thought they wanted me to win.

Chile, was I wrong.

I've witnessed firsthand the harsh reality that not everyone is rooting for you. I saw a man get voted off a nonprofit board he created. As they coldly informed him that they wanted to take the nonprofit in a different direction, he pleaded, But I am the one who started this charity almost 30 years ago. Their faces showed no empathy, no recognition of his years of dedication. When they voted him off, I also resigned.

My heart broke. Perhaps it was because I understood the tears and sweat equity it takes to start a grassroots charity. Maybe it was because I saw people unite to dismantle someone else's dreams. Or perhaps, just maybe, it was because I feared this could happen to me.

So why am I sharing this transparent article? Because you need to know that not everyone will support you like you think they should. Whether it's a teacher, a co-worker, or even someone you love, prepare yourself for the reality that everyone won't be your cheerleader.

Here Are Three Steps to Help You Win:

1. Don’t Take It Personally

When people bet against you, it’s often because they are insecure or afraid of your success. Understand that their negativity says more about them than it does about you. Stay focused on your goals and let their doubts fuel your determination.

2. Work Harder

The best way to silence your critics is to outwork them. Push yourself beyond your limits and show them that you are unstoppable. Your success is the ultimate revenge. Prove that their skepticism was misplaced.

3. Celebrate Your Wins

Don’t forget to celebrate every milestone, big or small. Recognize your achievements and let them motivate you to keep moving forward. Celebrating your wins will keep your spirits high and your resolve strong. The bottom line is this: Not everyone will celebrate your victories. And that's okay. What's important is that you do. Celebrate every step forward because each one matters. Let the naysayers drive you, not deter you. Remember, the people who bet against you are only making you stronger.

Keep pushing, keep striving, and keep winning. The world needs to see what you're capable of. Make sure those who doubted you lose—big time.

Go out there and make it happen!

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Stay Motivated, Stay Relentless

Dr. Cheryl Jackson