Make Him Miss You

Absence makes the heart grow fonder, or so we’re told. But let’s face it: absence only helps you if your guy is actually missing you during that time.

Time apart can actually strengthen a relationship-- that time and energy you spend missing someone can make just as much of an impact as the time/energy spent on one amazing date. But time apart strains a relationship too; “ out of sight , out of mind “ plays a role in cheating. But, then again, if you're missing someone so much that you're consumed with thoughts of them, the temptation to cheat melts away.

Is there a way to ensure that "missing" is strengthening your relationship, and not straining it?

Probably not-- it's all about strength, mutual feelings, circumstance, and other intangibles.

There are few things more sweet and romantic than reuniting with the man you love, and having him run to you and wrap his arms around you.

Imagine him hugging you tightly and telling you how much he missed you..

It’s also very heart-warming when your man sends sweet texts even while he’s busy to let you know that you’re on his mind.

Personal space is important for every person, but you wonder what makes a guy miss you and make him obsessed with you. We all like to feel loved and want to make a guy we love to be obsessed only with us. Making a guy miss you it’s not magic, it all depends on how well is your bond with him, the feelings and good time spend together.

Look good

The very first thing that you must do in front of your boyfriend or a guy you like is to always wear good and clean clothes. Men are visual and women know this very well. These clothes do not need to be expensive, it only needs to be cool on you and at the same time use a good perfume.

With this step he won’t actually miss you, but this is the first step of attraction and if you are in a relationship then help to maintain the passion. If he is your boyfriend then remember to change your hairstyles, perfume and buy new clothes to look new and fresh to never let the passion die.

Soft touches

If there is a way to make a man fall in love with you and miss you then touches are important. Men cannot resist the touch of a woman. If you are his friend then soft touches on hands can also make a major impact.

The next time you’re with him, touch his palms or take it by the arm when crossing the street and let your touch last a little longer than necessary. Your touch will be incredibly exciting for him and will shoot a romantic atmosphere in a short time.

Give him time to miss you

This may sound cliché, but it’s probably the most efficient way to make someone miss you like crazy. The time you spend away from your guy will provide your partner the opportunity to think about how much you were worth. This is difficult, but it is certainly a great way to make a man miss you.

When you’re in love with someone, obviously you want to spend much time with that person. But to generate a feeling to miss you and your company, you need to sometimes not be with him.

While it is important to spend time together to win his heart, it is equally important to give some space so that he realizes how special you are and how much he really misses you.

No chatting and texts all the time

As the above point indicates that you should give your guy time and hence chatting and texting should be limited. Texts have become very important to attract someone, but it should be done at the right time.

Suppose he just starts thinking about you and thus sends you a text, if you reply him immediately then do you think he will miss you?

Yes, we don’t want to look rude and hence we must reply back, but after sometime. Reply him after a while with a reason why you replied late, example busy with friends or some random work. With this reply tell him that you are busy and will talk to you later instead of starting to chat. In case there is an emergency situation, then it’s a different scenario.

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Thank you … My favourite day of the week is the one that I spend with you, so this week was very sad and uninteresting! I hope that we will make up leeway, come back soon, I miss you!   With you, I feel great and I’m not afraid of anything except one thing – I am afraid of being alone. You became everything to me, and even more.

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If you are a constantly nagging wife/ girlfriend and are looking for an answer, please spare yourself the delight!

For, why in the world would your man miss you if are constantly behind him as his own shadow?

Instead, a little absence of yours would seem to him like a breath of fresh air and freedom, long desired. Remember, to make a man miss you, you have to first give him the chance, and this can only happen if you stopped checking on him through constant phone calls, SMS, instant messaging and emails.

Missing is the consequence of realization and realization is an outcome of understanding the value of the other partner in a relationship.

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A Dash of Tease! Before you try on this idea, understand that there is a fine line between being sexy and being a wannabe. Sexy are those who ooze out confidence and appeal all at the same time and wannabes’ are those who seem to be desperate and attention seeking.

And men definitely are aroused when you are sexy and not when you act like a wannabe! To keep your man on his toes and make him have you in his mind even when he is sitting in front of his laptop in the office, just add a dash of tease to his life.

You can do this by taking him off guard completely when he least expects it. Wear an absolutely stunning outfit to his office to hand him his important papers that he left home or reveal the corny side of you in the bed just when it is time to get off the bed – the idea is to keep things brief and fleeting so that it lingers for long in his mind!

Even the starriest night is empty and dark for me because you are not by my side. I miss you a lot.   My heart is bleeding, only you can heal me with your kisses and hugs! I miss you, come to me ASAP.