To make difference to someone's life you just need to care!
Kishore Ramkrishna Shintre
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This is a deep subject matter, because in order to make a difference in someone's life, you have to add value to there life by helping them with solutions for their problems. You have to ask the right questions and you have to listen attentively to what they are saying. You have to win their sympathy with empathetic words and deeds and you have to win their trust with gracious words and deeds.
There are simple things we can do is to smile at people on the streets, you’ve already made an impact. It’s hard to know if your influence, though, was helpful or not; so many variables are involved. They could have interpreted your smile as mocking even though it wasn’t. Even if no one returns your smile, there could be someone in deep trouble and when you smiled at him or her offering some positive vibes it could have helped them for a moment to feel better looking at our smile.
Remember that we all have inner strengths that we can naturally share with others. They may be natural abilities that we were born with or hard-won strengths that have come only with hard work and experience. Either way, your strengths are unique to you. Chances are, there are many people out there who could benefit from them. The important thing is to use your strengths to lift someone up, not make them feel bad because of their lack of those strengths.
You can also leverage your strength on behalf of someone else. Like, if you might help young people fill out college applications or raise money for someone in need. Think outside the box, when it comes to using your strengths to help others. Do you remember the last time someone had faith in your dreams?
It is a very powerful feeling. As humans, we all suffer from moments of thinking that we are not good enough and that our big dreams don’t make sense. Give someone a little faith. Let them know that they are worth it. They will begin to believe that their dreams can come true, and this can really be a key way of how to change someone’s life.
While you are at it, have more faith in your own life that you are ever expected to have. It can be contagious and affect others. Simple things that you show that you care through your actions and attitudes. When you provide a need, you can make a big difference. It doesn’t matter if it is a physical need, an emotional need or a social need. Some people really need a sincere, authentic compliment. Others need a meal or a cup of coffee. Find a way to meet someone’s need, and you may just change a life.
As human beings, some argue, we are put on this earth to help others. If you believe this, it makes changing someone’s life for the better a very natural thing to do—we already have it built into our DNA. So what if no one has asked, we just have to slow down long enough to recognise it. Some of the biggest moments of joy may lay in wait when we freely give something when we haven’t been asked.
It may be easier than you think. There is no real way to measure the enormous impact anyone of us can have on another person’s life. Sometimes the smallest things can change the course of history for a person and for all of those that he or she comes in contact with. People can really do great things when they know that at least one person cares. It can give them hope and strength to face the future, and inspire them toward a better life. Just show that you care. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre
English Teacher employed by TSC
4 年This is very true.
Love life no matter what the circumstances are??
4 年So true
Director Purchase & Business Development NIDAN GROUP OF COMPANIES
4 年Great post Sir A caring touch matters more. I would like to share my experiences . As being in Healthcare many patients and unknown patients coming up through the contact call up for help for test and they talk fear towards Covid positive test and treatments ongoing. The words of kindness, support and caring words really helps to heal their pains and make them cool and rule out the depression . Many of them are now the best friends of mine .
Author, Historian, Thinker, Ideologue and Writer
4 年Your ulitmate asset is your sense of Care