Make a Change in Your Life

People love to complain about their life circumstances, but then they don't do anything to change them, which is kind of wild.

Complaining is useless. It is the language of losing because if you want to lose in life, continue complaining. It doesn't change the world, it doesn't change your situation, and it won't help you in any way!?

You are in your current situation because of the actions that you took to get here. You can either take responsibility for or play the victim card.?

If you choose to play the victim card, you can bet that your circumstances won't change much.?

We're going to take a look at four life categories. This is a great journaling practice that will hopefully push you to begin devising a new plan.?

Where you live

If you like the city where you live, that’s awesome. If you don't like the city that you live in, you are free to leave.?

A lot of people stay where they are because they grew up there or their family and friends are there. One of the most important decisions that you'll make is where you live. This will impact the people you hang out with, the opportunities that present themselves, everything!?

What about the home that you live in? Do you love it? Does it support the vision you have? You draw energy from the place where you live.?

If I live in a dark place with little light, it affects my energy like crazy so I have windows everywhere because I love natural light. Again, how will it support the energy you're trying to create?

Your relationships

Some of you guys that are listening to this are not in a romantic relationship. Can you start to be intentional about improving yourself to find your perfect match? Get a pen and paper out and list all of the traits that you want in a person, and then just become that person. Generally, birds of a feather flock together.

For those of you that are in a romantic relationship. Is it a relationship you want to stay in or is it not? Is it helping you grow in the direction that you want your life to go??

What about your relationship with your family and friends? Are there changes that you want to make and what are they? Write them all down and start to be intentional about it.?

When you change how you show up the people around you will usually change the way that they show up as well. It might take them a little bit of time, but it will eventually happen.

What you do for money

You spend 40% of your waking hours working. Why not do something that you love???Start to believe that you were not brought here just to work and pay the bills.??

I've seen people make crazy amounts of money, doing things that you would never think of. I know somebody who made $2.5 million last year, with her online jump-rope course. There are so many ways to make money. Do what you love and it'll pay off!?

Your body

Do you like the way that you look? If you don't like the way that you look, work out more, eat better, drink less alcohol, and drink more water. Your body is not something that just happens. You are not the victim here. Your body is the victim of your choices. You can’t blame it on your family or your genes and use that as an excuse.

You are in control. Start taking responsibility!?

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