The Magic Age to Talk About Money...7
Mac Gardner, CFP?
Award winning Founder & CEO (Chief Education Officer) at FinLit Tech | Author | FinLit & FinTech Evangelist | Public Speaker
Ok, it's Sunday afternoon and you're sitting down writing a grocery list and setting your budget. You take that list to the store and you start to compare the items as you walk down each aisle. You're holding up 2 cans of pasta sauce. You compare brands and compare prices. You add the one with the "Best Value" to your shopping cart. This continues until you get to the checkout line. You have a few coupons and you present them to the cashier. Little do you know...your 7 year old is watching EVERY move you make. She's also listening to the words you use and how you talk about financial decisions; even ones as simple as buying groceries.
By the age of 7 our kids are actually aware of the concept of money. They hear the conversations we (their parents or grandparents) have about money. They watch how their parents spend, if/how they save, if/how they invest and if/how they give. Children my even hear conversations about mutual funds, bank accounts, IRA, 401k, or a family business. They may not be speaking with you about it, but they are absorbing these experiences and they are shaping the financial habits that will be exercised throughout their lives.
These early years in a child's life are critical to their long term development. Studies show that a child's connection with money starts as early as AGE 7! They start to learn the subtle differences of how money is used. Children at this age begin to understand the concept of an allowance as a means to EARN money for doing chores around the house. What is often not provided to children at this age is a full set of options for what to DO with their money. Sadly, many homes and many schools don't have the tools needed to start that money conversation with children in elementary school.
There are basically only 4 functions of money: Spend, Save, Invest, or Give. These functions are the basic building blocks of Financial Literacy. A child learns from an early age that they must earn money. However, they are often shown from an early age that there are only 2 options for that money once they have it - Spend it or Save it. They should be taught that they have other options. And those other options of Investing and Giving can have a big impact over their financial life journey.
"The Four Money Bears" book was written to help parents with young children have that discussion about money at an early age. Each Bear represents a function of money. Spender Bear, Saver Bear, Investor Bear, and Giver Bear tell the story of working together to create a budget. They introduce educational financial literacy concepts in a fun and entertaining way. They help kids understand their options when deciding what to DO with their money. And more importantly, the book provides parents a tool to start a conversation they probably never had when they were kids.
Our kids are watching our every move. Give them the opportunity to talk about Financial Literacy at an early age. Let's not wait until middle school or high school to start talking about money. That conversation can start earlier than you think! #TeachKidsMoney
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5 年I like whatever age they do a lemonade stand as you can explain they need to make enough to pay for lemonade and cups ??
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5 年Thanks for sharing. I agree with you. Start the money conversation with our children at an early age.