LOYALTY

#sterveysharing #stervosharing #loyalty - Best day!!! Here's wishing you an awesome week ahead with a great start on Monday.... :)

While today's sharing is about looking externally at people around us and why they change their loyalty towards. I am going to defer and take the risk by exploring it from another perspective....

Before we start, let's look at one of the law of universe - Change. Everything changes in and around us. Hence, how we deal with change will affect how we behave towards loyalty. ,(Remember this statement of fact) Next, What is Loyalty? It is a strong emotion of support and allegiance... Hence, loyalty is never a physical form but a very powerful emotional attachment of our commitment to each other. Finally, have you noticed why some individuals are so loyal while others is casual about it? My studies and research had shown that personal traits plays a part. For eg, if you have a more Empathetic and Affectionate traits, your loyalty to anything tend to be much higher versus the rest.

With reference to today's sharing, it is true that we can never control loyalty. Why? Because it's one of our personalty traits for who we are. Can we manage it? Yes , it can be managed. How? By knowing our True Self. Recognizing our Strengths, Weakness, personal traits and characteristics - meaning - we must know ourselves first.

Lastly, in terms of why the other party has changed and no longer loyalty to you. Perhaps, it would be good to check on ourselves first. How much have we changed in ourselves when we started the relationship? Perhaps, it's not the other party fault. Perhaps it is our fault. Over time, we have changed. As such, the other person is not able to accept the evolving you. Which leads back to the earlier statement - how good we are in managing Change in our life...

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