Loyalty Of A Dog’s Love
Thomas l. Odem Jr. ...and "if the essence of my being has caused a smile upon your face or a touch of joy within your heart. Then in living - I have made my mark."
Perceptions, humans have many, few lack reality. Nevertheless there is one immutable lifeform we can depend upon for loyalty and the purest of love; our dogs! Their perceptions live in this very moment, never in the past or thoughts of the future. For many humans, dogs fill the most basics of our needs; they give us permission to be ourselves and to be loved. [Tweet]
Perceptions: gaze upon this picture, what emotions stream forward? Is it hate, sadness, compassion, some might be merciless in condemnation, others might feel remorse. What we humans lack is a dogs’ best character. We humans carry an entourage of our past on our backs into all relationships and life. A dog, lives in the moment! As do all animals. Dogs do remember longtime friends, family and other animals over many years. They have deep embedded emotions, they grieve, experience loss to their core – but they move on, giving years of loyalty to their owners.
Today, this moment, is to remind all of us of dedication - loyalty and love. What will be the immediate emotions and thoughts? How deep do we allow ourselves to experience? How much do we care in our so ordinary worlds?
When passing by a person on the streets, do we turn our eyes in fear, looking away, feeling disgust or do we blame and complain, disgruntled at what some consider lesser than human? What are our perceptions towards other humans, many whose only caring partner is a dog? [Tweet]
The first basic ingredient we all require after our first breath, is care. This inaugurates our instincts – our basics in survival. Humans require stirring of our hearts, touching of our hands - the softness of our skin, sensing with our eyes and ears. We are kinesthetic. We sense danger, calmness – wonder about our next response and action. Animals are also kinesthetic however, they do not project into the future of what may happen; they respond only to the immediate of circumstances, engaging their instinctual knowledge. While both surrender to great emotional depths.
When looking at each photograph, a sword pierces my core filling my senses with a myriad of feelings, from wonderment to crushing hopelessness, remorse and gratitude fill all senses. The meaning of animals in my own life, and for many - this one legacy of loyalty is the only companion a person might have in their world, the only loving being to cling to. These words produce one question in my mind; do we care? Our dogs will bestow loyalty, acceptance, companionship, respect, and kindness, never ending friendship – all precious legacies without request, never failing.
Here, a man with his only companion, a Shepard, solemnly held in his arms. The man’s face is worn from where life stripped him of his dignity. But to his dog, he is more worthy of acceptance, he is worthy of care and love. Humans’ judge! A dog accepts! [Tweet] His dog does not care if they do not have a home, or if they smell from the dirty streets. All that matters is that they are together, warming each from the cold, and maybe a meal. Can we humans do that for each other? I wonder. How do we pass people on the streets whose lives have fallen through the cracks, the holes we create as a nation?
Do we utter helpful words or do we look the other way as if this person were soulless? Does he not warrant our attention? He is homeless, does he not merit the same comforts – food – shelter? Or do we grumble some vile complaint? Do we acknowledge over 35% of the homeless are our veterans, (2014 stats where 49,933 homeless), who have come home from war wounded internally, who have seen and experience atrocities we cannot bear to hear or speak. We treat our homeless the same as we dare not speak of war, we pass by without a glance of their wretched anguish. Their dog accepts the forlornness without judgment. Some of us may serve a meal on Thanks Giving and smile, give ourselves a smile of gratitude for offering some coins or bit of paper called money. Does this gesture equal what their dog’s give moment to moment? Did this man fight in a war for our freedom? [Tweet]
Are we willing to admit, our restaurants and grocery stores dispose of enough food on a daily basis to feed the entire worlds’ population three meals daily? Here sits a face of despair with his loyal dog, most likely both hungry and cold. Does it touch your heart or exacerbate anger? Do we ever stop our busy lives to ask the person on the street; how may we help you? Do we care for our humanity? Many would say yes. “What do you do for humanity?” Silence fills the air with awkward rumblings. Could we share one morsel of this kindness with a tattered stranger sitting on the ground?
Here is a solider carrying another Shepard. Obviously the air is hot by the hanging panting tongue from the dog. Our nameless solider carries a rifle of war in his other hand, heavy pack on his back, and yet he has the compassion to carry a dog as well. What will he come home to, the same despair? What judgments do we project onto the so called “derelict” who is homeless who might have been a solider coming home to no home, damaged? Who fought a long unnecessary war, with integrity for his country and those who have comfortable lives. We do not understand the traumas of war and the internal wounds men and women live with for the rest of their lives? A dog does not see damage, and is the only willing loyal companion. The Veteran and the Labradoodle (TedTalkreport)
What do you see in these two pictures? Or did you stop reading in disgust possibly thinking, “they failed, it is the derelicts problem.” For all the wars fought our homeless population increases exponentially. We begrudge our soldiers who have seen the worst in human indecency, a considerate homecoming. Have you ever listened to the horrors? A dog has heard the moans many times and still remains accepting. Our soldiers’ tax dollars also pay for our Congressional leader’s premium health insurance, comfortable warm homes and fat bellies. (Facts on Congressional health insurance)
I have crossed this U.S. continent three times on my own with my dogs. The homeless population of people and animals has grown over those 30 years. Shall we judge the strength and loyalty of our nations by the population of our hungry and poor? It seems more truth bearing. [Tweet]
Animal shelters bulge at the seams with unwanted pet, some euthanize 80% or higher – a nice term for “kill shelters.” How is this a shelter? And yet our pet industries are an annual 9 $Billion dollar income commerce. The cost of wars are in the trillions. Who benefits?
How do we give back to dogs and humans when life has taken a devastating detour?
None of us are alone, there is always a traveler beside us when accompanied by a dog! [Tweet]
Simple pictures can tell a story. A calm walk down a country dirt road, a man and his dog evoke an array of emotions in many. Many find it exceedingly lonely. Some find this calming – others might see the beauty of the quiet country while others find the land to be austere and lifeless.
A single man and his loyal dog, slumbering along a dirt road in fall. The grass has dried, he wears a long pony tail, suede boots with fringe, gloved hands and an old comfortable winter jacket. A hat showing years of wear, for it has grown its own shape fitting his head. He walks with a loose lead alongside his dog, down a peaceful road somewhere on some continent.
A boy and his dog sitting on a dock by the water’s edge, somewhere. What do we see? Possibly a lifelong formation of a relationship. That is something we cannot see, we can hope and dream for, only. We can see the calmness of the waters, a young boy viewing the simplicity of life, the spender of a chilly fog basking in the morning sun as it rises for the day. A quiet time in thought of what young boys think. A loyal equally calm dog beside him.
For all the wonders that dogs have brought us. The K-9 service dogs offers in protection through wars and homeland police duties.[Tweet] Search and rescue dogs who feel immense pain when hope has been lost in not finding survivors from earthly or other disastrous calamities filling our world. The Service dogs who sits alongside a child while convulsing from a seizure. Dogs who pinpoint with their heads, targeting the area of malignant tumors. Dogs who remain calm beside their owner when they experience amnesia episodes; the dog might be the only recognizable being in their life at that moment. Recognizable by the loyalty and love or the soft acceptance from their eyes.
The dog who waits long hours for his owner to come home from a job, with a happy smile, tail wagging, jumping about to greet his guardian with joy.
(Hachiko, a true story of a Japanese Akita, walking with his owner each day to a train station, seeing him off and then meeting him every evening as the professor returned home. One evening the professor did not return, [Tweet] Hachi waited 9 years faithfully. There is a Memorial statue of Hachiko where he waited and died.
The dog on a back yard chain, sitting in the cold, viewing a house filled with light, longing to be with his people. And the dog who is left at a shelter, the excuse: the new rental or life change will not support a continued relationship. We are a callous race in our humanity. There are many stories, some cannot be told for the sadness overwhelms us; not our dogs, they sit with us. Take a moment, pause; what do we care for in this world of ours?
Is it even our planet which our lives depend upon? What will you do the next time there is a stranger on the streets, alone with a dog? Animals have no judgments, they only know a singular moment when they are with a human they love.
This is my Sad?,[Tweet} I am the fortunate one to have found her at the Buddy Center in Castle Rock Colorado 9 years ago. I trained her to be a Service dog, to work alongside with me, she has given me more love than any one human has given.
March 13th is Veterans Dog Day, please do not celebrate as many do on our War Veterans’ day by guzzling beer at a barbeque. Please consider adopting a pet for “life, their life.” And some day we might make this day a [Tweet] National Memorial day in Honour of All Dogs. And Veterans Day, a true remembrance of those who fought for peace! While we cannot adopt a person, we can help and consider that person on the streets as human, who has been left behind by lending a considerate helping hand.
Please adopt from shelters, take care of your dog, feeding them nutritious food - bringing them in from the cold and lonely dark nights. Please do not be a bystander, help – take some initiative to lift the Pit Bull ban in your state. Be a responsible loving (Cesar Milan, calm and assertive) owner. In short “give a damn!” Most of all take a lesson from our dogs, care about humans of all kinds from around the world; Dogs do! [Tweet]
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