Love the life you live or live that life you love

In our life there is this compulsion of things which makes our life tough and stressful, now when you realise and accept that this life is momentary and is going to end with whatever you achieve or you don't achieve the end result is to perish, you become less agitated. Now when we compare people around us, their respective situations and glories, we forget to compare that ending which is going to be same for all of us. So this comparison, this necessity of proving worth to others, showing people to have their praises for you which ultimately satisfy your ego thereby generating a sense of superiority is the actual cause of suffering.

Let it loose, live for the peace and serenity of the life, look towards nature, look how your priorities change with time and age, see how things are so important at some point of time becomes futile at the other, this engagement of thoughts with what we see, what we have been told and what we perceive is the cause of disturbance, reality is only one and that is the end of the thoughts or death. Death is not bad, it's a reality check for one to be actually free but at the same time it bounds people in fear and anxiety as if they will dodge it, which is impossible.

Love your life doesn't mean to love the life which you think is a life but it's only a wrong perception of yours regarding the life. Life is easy and soft don't make it rigid with compulsions, things will not be the way you want but with other external factors playing on, you can only control your thoughts and reactions to the situations. Be conscious enough to value every single moment of your life, be in the moment, live to the fullest by accepting it to the fullest. Shed the burden of compulsions and walk freely. You love it and will start living what you love and that is the freedom from bondages of thoughts and compulsions.

I love having a family that I love and that loves me. I also love having a fun and interesting job that allows me to work at home and be around my husband and children as much as they'd like. I love being free to do things I want. I love eating healthy and exercising. I love that I have patience. I love my children's names. I love that my husband is so sweet and good to me. I love that I'm not a hoarder. I love that I can have fun without spending a lot of money. I love that I wrote a novel. I love that my children have never even seen me angry. I love that I get a lot of compliments. I love the peace I feel in my heart and mind. I love that my husband is a good father. I love that my children are so funny and cute. I love that God has given me this life of peace and happiness.

I love the “being” part of - being, feeling, thinking, exploring and discovering; the falling and the flying; the growing parts of it; the variety and scope within it; the potential, gains and losses; the simplicities and complexities; the ironies and the boredom, the joys, the giving, the taking, the breathing and loving. So many great things. If you can imagine floating out in a sea of black, and see all around you, above you, below your feet, above your head, behind and in front of you, nothing but tiny little galaxies (everywhere). One hundred, billion galaxies, each containing one hundred billion stars, each star surrounded by Earths just like ours. If you can see all of this, and see this all as one living being… there’s nothing you can feel but love for Awe, and love for All. Cheers!